Show threadP Gurgel-Segrillo13h ago

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) Misconceptions

https://youtu.be/7xHvNw70FCc?si=3JKYWzTpZYhRCZ41

#PathologicalDemandAvoidance #PDA #ASD #ADHD #AuDHD #actuallyAutisitc #Actuallyadhd #PervasiveDriveForAutonomy

Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) Misconceptions

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P Gurgel-Segrillo13h ago

Really interesting convo about PDA:

"Avoidance is not the only way PDAers respond to demands.
PDAers experience stress responses to any perceived demands.
Those stress responses may be masked or internalized.

(PDA is a genetic neurotype like Autism or ADHD. If you want to learn more you can click on Sally Cat’s page to learn more.)"

https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1J3rB2NEgx/

#ActuallyADHD #ADHD #AuDHD #PDA #ActuallyAutistic #CPTSD #PTSD #trauma #PervasiveDriveForAutonomy #PathologicalDemandAvoidance

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Guiding Exceptional ParentsApr 21

Join us May 13th, on PDA Day, for a global community event by PDA North America!

This is a great event if you're a PDAer, parent, caregiver, educator, or professional. You'll have the opportunity to engage directly with speakers on a variety of essential topics relating to PDA.

I'll be speaking at 11:15 am on PDAers transitioning to adulthood!

Learn more here: https://www.zeffy.com/en-US/ticketing/pda-day-community-event

#PathologicalDemandAvoidance
#PervasiveDriveforAutonomy
#Neurodiversity
#Autism

Show threadAlex GriffinJan 22
#pda #neurodiversity #pathologicaldemandavoidance #demandavoidance #autism #adhd #audhd
Show threadWillOct 18, 2025

@kitten_tech what you're describing sounds so much like the difficult amorphic internal obstacles I'm wrestling with every day. I really appreciate how you're doing internal investigation- to discern challges and work around them. All we can do is keep trying different strategies, right?

I don't know your details- for me, I'm pretty sure my chronic illnesses are part of it. But I'm pretty sure it's mostly my PDA Autism (and burnout). Maybe it's relevant 4u too? #PathologicalDemandAvoidance

Bi-mothy RezendesOct 1, 2025

Watching a security awareness training video at work about social engineering.

"Hackers know that by pretending to be an authority figure, you are more likely to comply without asking questions."

Hackers have clearly never met me.

#Cybersecurity #PathologicalDemandAvoidance #PDA #ACAB

Steve Dustcircle 🌹Sep 14, 2025

The Role of #Perfectionism in #PathologicalDemandAvoidance

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/perfectionism/202509/the-role-of-perfectionism-in-pathological-demand-avoidance

The Role of Perfectionism in Pathological Demand Avoidance

Pathological demand avoidance, a strategy often used by perfectionists to manage inner turmoil, may be based on extreme self-doubt and self-loathing.

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David 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️NB they/themApr 22, 2025
I just learned about pathological demand avoidance and I think I found my flavor of autism. Just reading about it so many things clicked into perspective for me. I don’t know what that means for me yet but my world feels a bit lighter tonight and maybe for the first time there’s hope that someday I won’t feel like an imposter for simply existing.
#PathologicalDemandAvoidance #Autism
ThreeOfUsDec 4, 2024
This is exactly like #pda stepson Zs behaviour during a meltdown: a complete inability to do what she’s told; physical and verbal abuse to resist; trying to push all of the buttons to make the officers lose their sh!t. I relate so hard to the officers’ predicament. When Z has a meltdown like this it’s so hard. Do you think this is a pda meltdown or just the behaviour of a ‘spoiled brat that’s never been told no’?
#pathologicaldemandavoidance #asd #autism
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=HFF9cHOO0BA
Spoiled Brat Commits 4 Felonies After Denied Entry Into Club

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