Setting boundaries with our parents as adults can be harder than it seems. #narcissisticparent

from Talk With Anna

Healing Your Mom Wound

Greg and I were discussing the hypothetical ethics of masturbating while overhearing the neighbours having sex, and from that discussion the ethics of having sex in a way that you might be overheard.

I mentioned that even as a young adult when I first moved into share houses I was never perturbed by the sounds of people fucking and would pretty much just tune it out - even when it's been in the same room.

He said that he's the same, even the sound of his parent having sex while he was growing up didn't bother him.. it was just what they were doing and didn't have any of the ick attached. Then he joked 'I never rubbed one out to the sound of them..'

I said 'oh, I never masturbated to the sound of my mother having sex either, mostly because the crunching of bones as she decapitated and ate her prey post coitus was a little disturbing..'

#sex #kink #NarcissisticParent

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How our narcissistic parents influence our VALUES #identity #values #narcissisticparent #healing

from Talk With Anna

Healing Your Mom Wound
So this week a distant family member who I havent seen in years, who made no effort to keep in touch with me even before the family split, died. The sheer level of effort she went to to not text me was amazing. she ended up phoning my friends mom and telling her to tell my friend to tell me.... instead of just sending a text like i'd asked. #estranged #NoContact #NarcissisticParent
TBT: 1976. My Pentecostal father was convinced that Jesus told him to move our family from BC to NY, so he could become a preacher/evangelist. I am the one dressed in red and leaning on the George Washington fire hydrant, in honour of the American bicentennial. #ReligiousTrauma #fundamentalism #narcissisticparent #childhood #TBThursday #1970s #kelowna #BC

Yup, I stopped a long time ago, life is too short.

After a while you just learn to let people believe and think what theyre going to think.

Why does it matter?

They are a nobody in your life if theyre hell-bent on disrespecting and hurting you.

Aint no point in their existance for you anyway.

Youre strong, you dont need people like that around you. 👊🏻👏🏻

If someone requires you to fight back and defend yourself, they arent a friend.

You dont have to justify, or defend anything.

Live your life, you do you honey ~

#NarcissisticAbuse #Narcissism #NarcissisticParent

Just 5am thoughts... when I wake up my brain never shuts up.

https://thewildwoodswitch.tumblr.com/post/705856868057251840/transparency-5am-thoughts

Edit: I edited that about six times after I posted it so if you read it originally, refresh it 😂

#NarcissiticAbuse #NarcissisticParent #Witchcraft #ShadowWork #Healing #FindingMyself

Transparency - 5am Thoughts ~

So ya'll know something? I can admit that I was not a good person growing up, being forced to raise yourself makes you angsty and extremely cold at times. And being relentlessly abused on top of it,...

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