Dans un entretien, Lauren Berlant souligne et affirme que l'optimisme cruel n'est pas l'objet lui-même, mais plutôt la relation :
« Une relation d'optimisme cruel est un dilemme dans lequel votre attachement à un objet vous soutient dans la vie, alors que cet objet est en réalité une menace pour votre épanouissement. On ne peut donc pas dire qu'il existe des objets qui ont la qualité d'être cruels ou non cruels, c'est la relation que vous entretenez avec eux qui compte. Peut-être qu'être en couple n'est pas une relation d'optimisme cruel pour vous, car être en couple vous donne le sentiment d'avoir un ancrage dans le monde ; alors que pour d'autres personnes, être en couple peut être d'une part un soulagement de la solitude, et d'autre part la présence envahissante d'une personne qui doit supporter le fardeau de satisfaire tous vos besoins. Ce n'est donc pas l'objet qui pose problème, mais la manière dont nous apprenons à être en relation. »

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Lauren Berlant, George M. Pullman Professor of English at the University of Chicago, has generated a path-breaking body of scholarship that has opened up and reinvigorated interdisciplinary conversations about citizenship, sex, law and neoliberalism for over two decades. David Seitz, a Toronto-based writer and Ph.D. candidate in human geography and women’s and gender studies at…

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In an interview, Lauren Berlant emphasizes and maintains that cruel optimism is not the object itself, but rather the relationship:
"A relation of cruel optimism is a double-bind in which your attachment to an object sustains you in life at the same time as that object is actually a threat to your flourishing. So you can't say that there are objects that have the quality of cruelty or not cruelty, it's how you have the relationship to them. Like it might be that being in a couple is not a relation of cruel optimism for you, because being in a couple actually makes you feel like you have a grounding in the world, whereas for other people, being in a couple might be, on the one hand, a relief from loneliness, and on the other hand, the overpresence of one person who has to bear the burden of satisfying all your needs. So it's not the object that's the problem, but how we learn to be in relation."

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Interview with Lauren Berlant | Society and space

Lauren Berlant, George M. Pullman Professor of English at the University of Chicago, has generated a path-breaking body of scholarship that has opened up and reinvigorated interdisciplinary conversations about citizenship, sex, law and neoliberalism for over two decades. David Seitz, a Toronto-based writer and Ph.D. candidate in human geography and women’s and gender studies at…

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“I simply do not see why the nation has to have an official sexuality, especially one that authorizes the norm of a violent gentility; that narrows the field of legitimate political action; that supports the amputation of personal complexity into categories of simple identity; that uses cruel and mundane strategies both to promote shame for non-normative populations and to deny them state, federal, and juridical supports because they are deemed morally incompetent to their own citizenship. This is the heterosexuality I repudiate.”

― Lauren Berlant, in "The Queen of America Goes to Washington City: Essays on Sex and Citizenship"

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#LaurenBerlant on Intimacy as World-Making
by Hans Demeyer

https://extraextramagazine.com/talk/lauren-berlant-on-intimacy-as-world-making


Hans: What drew you to affect
#theory?

Lauren: Part of my interest in affect is about how people get attached to concepts in the way they get attached to lovers: how people take abstractions extremely personally and how they throw themselves into things without a plan or ideology – sometimes it’s ideological in the sense that people throw themselves into things they have learned they should throw themselves into, but often it’s inventive. And that’s why you have to know about affect because
something makes you do something while not knowing why you did it. My interest was in discovering how we register affect as a kind of belated experience. That’s why I also work on genre because genres are spaces where problems of causality are also reflected on and disturbed.

Hans: One of the genres that is very attractive to people is
the enrapturing #musicvideo, a genre that is rather lacking in causality and narrativity and is foremost an affective atmosphere in which people wish to stay – ‘I want my entire life to be this #music #video.’ It’s not dissimilar to the end of a romantic #film where the #love interests recognise that they belong together after which the film stops and the hardest part of building a life together is not shown. But as with the music video, that scene installs a longing for recognition to stay as an affective intensity.

Lauren: That’s how people live, right? When they find some happiness, they just want it to go on like that forever. That’s how Freud defines
pleasure: it’s the state you want to be in. But this affective state doesn’t have to feel positive the way ‘pleasure’ suggests: it could feel like affective comfort food, sometimes provided by the return of shame, or loneliness, or asceticism, or ennui, any state where people get to coast the way they want. Media that offer ecstatic atmospherics – the music video, but also #TikTok, mumblecore or lo-fi – are very powerful because they fold an alternative world of #fantasy and fascination from where people live. José Muñoz would talk about this as a kind of utopianism. You create utopianism not because you are getting a future, but because you experience affectively a world you want to live in before there is an infrastructure for it. In the DIY and professional music video, #artists usually find ways to demonstrate pleasure without making viewers feel small, modelling a freedom someone might want to imitate or be proximate to, as in fan or stan #culture. I’m a little bit more sceptical because I wonder: does the aesthetic pastoral matter or is it mainly a ruse of alternativity? The question is how we take up a position in our pleasures and attachments.
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"No one wants to be a bad or compromised kind of force in the world, but the latter is just inevitable. The question is how to develop ways to interrupt their banality and to move them somewhere." - Lauren Berlant, "Affect is the new trauma." #affect #LaurenBerlant #reading
“History is what has hurt and it continues to make shadow lines, and we are always in the haze of the present, sensing new repetitions-to-be, some of which can be willed, others of which remain enigmatic. We are still unlearning the promise of realist representation to provide the detail-as-anchor, and therefore are improvising how else we might know to pay attention.” — Lauren Berlant, Cruel Optimism, p. 157 #history #reading #attention #LaurenBerlant

"It is awkward and it is threatening to detach from what is already not working."

Lauren Berlant wrote in "Cruel Optimism" (page 263)

Book presentation: 'A relation of cruel optimism exists when something you desire is actually an obstacle to your flourishing. Offering bold new ways of conceiving the present, Lauren Berlant describes the cruel optimism that has prevailed since the 1980s, as the social-democratic promise of the postwar period in the United States and Europe has retracted. People have remained attached to unachievable fantasies of the good life—with its promises of upward mobility, job security, political and social equality, and durable intimacy—despite evidence that liberal-capitalist societies can no longer be counted on to provide opportunities for individuals to make their lives “add up to something.”'

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At the risk of sounding like a treacly #inspiration poster, and knowing that even the prospect of meeting #LaurenBerlant in real life would have thrown me into a fit of intimidated fear and trembling, I'm taking a phrase from the acknowledgments of her "On the Inconvenience of Other People" and running as long as I can with it: "it's up to us to take up and do something with what hooks us."
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"We need to reinvent what it means to do engaged, solidaristic work for the current crisis, the spreading precarities, and the insecuritization of all labor contexts. What world are we teaching people for, reaching toward, trying to describe or make? What is the relation between the fantasy of knowledge as a good in itself and pedagogy as a project of collective skill-building, a mobile utility that can have concrete effects elsewhere?" #LaurenBerlant