"A military- and police-centered ideology teaches us to look for safety outside ourselves. If something is wrong, we call a cop, a parent, a teacher, or some other authority figure, rather than trying to sort it out ourselves and with peers. Using hierarchies to find safety, especially hierarchies that create and maintain illegitimate authority, is futile.
Hierarchies based in illegitimate authority are the cause of all the most dangerous things - pollution, poverty, sexual violence, war, etc. Everywhere, I see this pattern of authority-seeking, even among people who want to get rid of police and militaries. When we are emotionally stirred and in conflict, we often want others to see that we are right.
Even if we don't turn to official authority figures, many of us gossip or cancel or drag people on social media because we feel like we'll be safe if and when other people take our side. Or we want an outside facilitator or mediator to become a judge and declare us "in the right", and we are unsatisfied if they won't take on that role. We've been conditioned to look for safety outside."
- Dean Spade, "Love in a Fucked Up World"
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