What are some books that have helped you with feelings of alienation or estrangement?
I'm looking for recommendations for books to return to when I feel lonely, intentionally misunderstood, gaslit and/or bullied. For those tough moments when I feel like there's no place for me on earth.
A few examples of books that mean a lot to me:
- Lonely Castle in The Mirror by Mizuki Tsujimura: made me feel less alone with my experiences of being bullied and being an outsider. There's hope for finding community elsewhere. Gave me the same feeling of coming home on a close-knit phpBB forum in the past.
- I Who Have Never Known Men by Jacqueline Harpman: speaks to me in a sense that when life is difficult, resilience and curiosity will always get you through. Why not stick around to see what changes, to see what's out there, even if you will never be able to understand? Others don't need to understand you and they don't need to feel the same as you, for life to be worth living and for things to be meaningful to you as an individual.
- Vita Nostra by Marina & Sergey Dyachenko: made me believe that even with threatening people around you controlling your life, there are ways to push back, to change yourself, to resist and to focus on other things than only mourning the life you thought you would have. You can experience growth within yourself, not only forced destruction.
- Piranesi by Susanna Clarke: you can be lost, you can be chronically ill, you can be confused, you can be alone, but you can still live on. You can wonder about everything.
- Earthlings by Sayaka Murata: I don't think there's anything heartwarming in here, but I feel such a sense of comfort that there are characters out there completely disconnected from the world around them because society makes no sense and is cruel.
- Pew by Catherine Lacey: It's not you. It's them.
- Among Others by Jo Walton: has a good message that books will always be a companion.
Any books you'd recommend to me? Any books that have the same vibes as any of the above? Any books that have given you comfort over the years?
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