Mike McCaffreyLove the idea of diagnosing #Allistics for all their crazy behaviors.
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Heather Cook🖖Autistic CoachSmall talk as allistic scripts #healthycommunication #allistics #socialscripts #autisticsocializing
Small talk as allistic scripts #healthycommunication #allistics #socialscripts #autisticsocializing
Trollup 🐾Does anyone know of #dating or #hookup #apps that either have filters for or cater to #neurodivergent people, perhaps even to #ActuallyAutistic folks? I get overwhelmed having to address certain emotional neediness or opaque mating protocols of #allistics. It’s truly exhausting.
My usual reaction when a guy expects me to just conform to his social expectations is to ghost or block. I just don’t know how to do whatever it is they expect.
Bill Taroli 
🧵2/2 So the plan went as expected. They were caught off guard because I wasn’t reading while they stared. They were equally confused when I had almost zero questions for them. Nah, I’ll take my time and write up a novel once I read the report. Save us all time and email the report BEFOREHAND.
Messing with #allistics and their rando expectations is sometimes real fun. My husband had a smirk the entire time. I’d warned him in advance.
Yea, parents can be #neurodifferent too! 🤣
@yourautisticlife I honestly think we could benefit from apps where we could fillter #allistics. Flagging ourselves as #neurodivergent or #neurodifferent just doesn’t seem to be enough. The folks who aught to self-filter don’t understand they they should or why it’s important. (sigh)
8Petros [MOVING!!]Posting here for future processing.
#autism #spectrum #Allistics #asperger
10 Autistic Phrases Explained: The Meaning of Words Like Allistic and Neurodivergent
#autism #spectrum #Allistics #asperger
10 Autistic Phrases Explained: The Meaning of Words Like Allistic and Neurodivergent
@manzanares Oh my yes! I’ve totally done this. It confuses the fuck out of nearby #allistics when I do it too. LOL They translate it as “you’re not afraid to be wrong,” when really I’m just processing through my own understanding as I’m talking and/or asking about it. It has also been interpreted as mansplaining, and I get that. But it’s not entirely that. I’m selfsplaining, and a cis man, and you just happened to be there. 🤣 #ActuallyAutistic @autism101 @actuallyautistic
Shino MeIch will ja nur helfen. Das wird gerne von Menschen gesagt, die ein Bild über #actuallyautistic in der Öffentlichkeit verbreiten, dass von Kontrollverlust, Hilflosigkeit geprägt ist.
Statt darüber zu diskutieren, warum #Allistics alleine über unsere gemeinsame Umwelt bestimmen. Eine Umwelt, die uns zu gleichen Teilen gehört.
Es wird räsoniert, wie "man" uns intergrieren kann - in eine nicht geeignete Welt.
Da müssen wir ansetzen: Wir haben das Recht auf eine Umwelt, in der wir gesund leben.
I think we should start with the realisation that the dignostic criteria for #autistic people are made by #Allistics.
Allistic researchers judge autistic behaviour by their own needs.
Would you say it's smart to ask a bird to judge gill breathing by their own pulmonary respiration needs? Would be plain stupid.
So how come that we #actuallyautistic are judged by allistic needs?
@AutisticAdam @actuallyautistic But of course how could we be accepted when all people seem to generally care about is whether we comply with expectations and norms of behavior? There’s more going on underneath, folks, and much of it is how we are #disabled by #allistics. #surprise #ActuallyAustistic #AutisticAF