Love the idea of diagnosing #Allistics for all their crazy behaviors.
Small talk as allistic scripts #healthycommunication #allistics #socialscripts #autisticsocializing
Does anyone know of #dating or #hookup #apps that either have filters for or cater to #neurodivergent people, perhaps even to #ActuallyAutistic folks? I get overwhelmed having to address certain emotional neediness or opaque mating protocols of #allistics. It’s truly exhausting.
My usual reaction when a guy expects me to just conform to his social expectations is to ghost or block. I just don’t know how to do whatever it is they expect.
🧵2/2 So the plan went as expected. They were caught off guard because I wasn’t reading while they stared. They were equally confused when I had almost zero questions for them. Nah, I’ll take my time and write up a novel once I read the report. Save us all time and email the report BEFOREHAND.
Messing with #allistics and their rando expectations is sometimes real fun. My husband had a smirk the entire time. I’d warned him in advance.
Yea, parents can be #neurodifferent too! 🤣
@yourautisticlife I honestly think we could benefit from apps where we could fillter #allistics. Flagging ourselves as #neurodivergent or #neurodifferent just doesn’t seem to be enough. The folks who aught to self-filter don’t understand they they should or why it’s important. (sigh)
Ich will ja nur helfen. Das wird gerne von Menschen gesagt, die ein Bild über #actuallyautistic in der Öffentlichkeit verbreiten, dass von Kontrollverlust, Hilflosigkeit geprägt ist.
Statt darüber zu diskutieren, warum #Allistics alleine über unsere gemeinsame Umwelt bestimmen. Eine Umwelt, die uns zu gleichen Teilen gehört.
Es wird räsoniert, wie "man" uns intergrieren kann - in eine nicht geeignete Welt.
Da müssen wir ansetzen: Wir haben das Recht auf eine Umwelt, in der wir gesund leben.
I think we should start with the realisation that the dignostic criteria for #autistic people are made by #Allistics.
Allistic researchers judge autistic behaviour by their own needs.
Would you say it's smart to ask a bird to judge gill breathing by their own pulmonary respiration needs? Would be plain stupid.
So how come that we #actuallyautistic are judged by allistic needs?
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