This is a really important piece published by The Conversation today: ‘Women are often told their fertility ‘falls off a cliff’ after 35, but is that right?’ https://theconversation.com/women-are-often-told-their-fertility-falls-off-a-cliff-at-35-but-is-that-right-189978
Spoiler: it doesn’t fall off a cliff, but it does roll rapidly down a fairly steep mountain.
I’ve spent 2022 trying to get pregnant via IVF. I have done 5 egg retrievals and 5 embryo transfers. I am a textbook example of how few euploid embryos (embryos with the correct number of chromosomes) you make at 40. From 52 eggs retrieved, I’ve made 3 euploid embryos. I’ve also got 3 untested embryos frozen (not all can be tested) and I’m awaiting test results on another. I’ve transferred 4 untested embryos and I’m currently in the two week wait following transfer of 1 of my 3 normal embryos. Based on the stats (and my personal stats almost exactly match the literature), I’d be lucky if 1 of the untested embryos was normal.
I knew this would be difficult. I’ve walked the IVF path with others close to me. But I had no idea that I would make so few euploid embryos. I knew it would get harder with age, but I didn’t know it would get *this* hard.
And here’s why: no one tells us. We are told to be careful not to accidentally get pregnant, but we are not told that it might be bloody difficult to do it when we are ready to try.
So let’s tell people. Feel free to boost this post. Or just share the article. Because we need to start talking about this.