George Sudarkoff

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Executive coach for twice-exceptional and quirky leaders. Certified behavior nerd. Proud of my ADHD brain.

Writing a newsletter about failure, mindfulness, and leadership: https://sudarkoff.blog

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Know your goals.
You might not always be working toward them,
yet you are making decisions compatible with those goals.

- Kate Gregory #CppNorth

John Wick 4 was a good finale. In that I don’t think I’d wanna watch any more of this.

I have capacity to help more #startups/founders!

I’m a serial founder and #CTO myself with the unusual blend of deep tech experience combined with a passion for helping people.

I #coach and #advise and love teaming up with others to solve tough problems.

If you’re trying to make the world better and want to explore collaboration, I’d love to hear from you!

#GetFediHired #FractionalCTO #Consultant #Security #Web #Mobile #Product #Strategy

Your employee is struggling. You’re genuinely invested in their success, and spend more and more time and attention on trying to help them. But they are not making progress!

How do you decide whether to continue supporting them or to let them go?

I present to you a simple framework for how to think about this in the latest issue of my newsletter:

https://www.sudarkoff.blog/p/the-4-conditions-for-improvement?sd=pf

The 4 conditions for improvement

Can your underperforming employee still improve, or is it time to let them go?

Set Yourself Up For Failure

Cameras on or off?

Developers onboarded remotely never had an opportunity to meet their teammates in person, according to a recent study done by Microsoft Research.

Which made building strong social connection incredibly challenging for those developers.

The authors make a few recommendations in the paper, so it’s worth reading the whole thing.

But one recommendation in particular they felt strong enough about to put in the title:

Please Turn Your Cameras On https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/research/publication/please-turn-your-cameras-on-remote-onboarding-of-software-developers-during-a-pandemic/

Please Turn Your Cameras On: Remote Onboarding of Software Developers during a Pandemic - Microsoft Research

The COVID-19 pandemic has impacted the way that software development teams onboard new hires. Previously, most software developers worked in physical offices and new hires onboarded to their teams in the physical office, following a standard onboarding process. However, when companies transitioned employees to work from home due to the pandemic, there was little time […]

Microsoft Research

A client/reader asked: "Is there ever a time when your perceived authority is not a good thing?"

Here was my answer, I'd love to hear what I missed or got wrong:

I can think of a few times when being perceived as having less authority might be a good thing:

• When you're not the smartest person in the room (which is always).
• When you want more creativity.
• When there's a disagreement and you want their honest opinion.
• When you question other people's assumptions.

Wanna be a great leader?

First Principles thinking is great, truly powerful stuff. And rare too!

But you know what’s even more rare?

Second Order thinking! Understanding that despite our best intentions, our actions often cause harm.

Taking responsibility for that? Vanishingly rare!

Do that, if you wanna be a truly great leader.

And here’s some more on how we ended up here. https://www.anildash.com/2023/07/07/vc-qanon/
"VC qanon" and the radicalization of the tech tycoons - Anil Dash

A blog about making culture. Since 1999.

"Fake it till you make it" can make your impostor syndrome much worse. Don't fake it, practice till you make it!

https://open.substack.com/pub/sudarkoff/p/dont-fake-it-practice-till-you-make?r=ob20m&utm_medium=ios&utm_campaign=post

Don't fake it, practice till you make it!

Have you ever accepted a role disturbingly far outside your comfort zone? Say, your new role requires you to speak in front of hundreds of people regularly. And you're dreading it because you know you freeze in front of large crowds! How does the usual advice go? Fake it till you make it, right? But fake what, exactly?

Set Yourself Up For Failure

We’re the last generation with any chance to prevent a climate disaster that threatens the very existence of our species.

And people use language like “I’m not sure it’s the right time and place”.

The right time and place was years ago and everywhere. Let’s get this show on the road so protests aren’t required, please. https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/tennis/66041547