Though I’m neither a believer nor observant, I light the #Hanukkah menorah because I love having Festival of Lights in the short December days and because I use my mother’s menorah, which she loved. Lighting the candles also makes me think of my Indian mother-in-law, who, upon me marrying her son, became an expert on which Jewish holidays occurred when, calling me with holiday wishes for holidays I never observe. #Chanukka #Hanukah

"Leave the big instances"
"Big instances should close their registrations, work on getting their shit together and in the meantime redirect new people to smaller instances that aren't terrible"



