So anywho...

As I hope this story shows, I really have tried my best to stay away from these bad actors.

My ex has surrounded themselves with quite of few of them.

Some are actually animated and PHYSICALLY dangerous bad actors.

They are beefing with me over literally hurt feelings and having opinions about their public affairs which they directly INVITED I and others to share in.

I really believed these ppl had better things to do by now. But they don't.

With THIS level of bad faith behavior, its CLEAR the best venue for my family is actually court at the moment.

I ask that these hangerons leave me and my kids the fuck alone. OR as is common these days, I will defend my self in court.

I hope one day my counter parent steps away from these abusive tactics but I don't control them and frankly I'd love to never speak to them ever again unless they can straighten up and fly right.

Until that day, my legal fund is open.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

Thanks so much for the legal aid donations last month!

Just about to file some updates with the courts that will hopefully address the current issues fully.

This support has really helped my lawyer get over the finish line!

For the month of April we're going to be trying to focus on survival cost and hope to raise an additional $1k - $2k to stay on top of bills and living expenses.

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#ParentingWhileBlack #MutualAidRequest #LegalAid

April mutual aid request

Help a Black family get back on their feet.

Goal $265 / $2000

💸 Bills $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation(see chuffed above or)

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

Recurring:

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#MutualAidRequest #MutualAid #HelpFolksLive2026 #ParentingWhileBlack

Just had unexpected police(CPS) contact related to NEW false claims by my counter parent.

Looks like ANOTHER false claim has hit and ANOTHER totally parallel legal process just started 🫠

Lawyer is tapping in. Which means time to post the legal fund link.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack

#KnowYourRights When CPS called me, I had two simple points.

1. You're just some person with access to a phone. I need time to verify you are the type of government employee you claim to be.

2. I have a lawyer, I want them in the loop so my rights are protected.

And so I declined to answer ANY of their questions until they proved their identities and provide the equivalent of a warrant for their investigation.

And you know what?

They were pissed but fucked off to wait for my lawyer.

CPS are cops.

If you tell them you have a lawyer and you won't be answering questions or giving home tours without him present.

They are SUPPOSED to go talk to your lawyer.

But instead these CPS agents came to the grocery store and followed me around asking questions.

Eventually they sent a second agent. I spoke to her and asked for my lawyer, almost immediately she obeyed.

The first guy hounded and harassed me for 20min!

There's never ending resources to harass a Black dad.

#PNW

Nice white folks always seem shocked to findout how absurd CPS contact is for people.

The statistics don't like. Black parents, especially Black men are systemically over policed by CPS nation wide.

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/116200589349306376

#CPS #FamilyLaw #ParentingWhileBlack

We had unnecessary police contact again yesterday.

A small crowd gathered to make sure we were ok after seeing me and my child surrounded by three cops.

#FamilyLaw #CourtWatch Over the past week I submitted and served the paperwork for a restraining order against my 3x false accuser, which landed on Wednesday.

We have a tentative court date set for June 22nd, I'd appreciate court watch support.

Thanks again for reporting harassing content, statements and actions from my ex this has been CRITICAL to this process.

Keep flagging these sorts of posts to me so I can inform the courts about this pattern of misconduct.

#ParentingWhileBlack

While the legal victories are stacking up rapidly, its important not to loose sight of the tiny human stuck in the middle of this horrific mistreatment.

We really need to hit our fundraising goals so I can provide the world to this beautiful young soul

Goal $295 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack

My lawyer warned me that many people are likely to retaliate after being served a restraining order summons.

Sadly my counter parent is ABSOLUTELY delivering on that.

At our last parenting exchange yesterday they brought a 3rd party along who was filming and made fun of me for asking that they stop.

While I asked this 3rd party not to film my ex came up from behind me and began snatching our child out of my arms forcefully while shouting at me.

Absolutely unnacceptable.

About an hour prior I noticed this SAME 3rd party attempting to film me at the light rail station. Literally stalking me on my way to the parenting exchange.

Why this person was in the light rail filming I do not know as they typically provide my ex transportation support. There's not any parking in the subway so not sure why they would be down there filming other than to stalk me.

An hour after the aggressive tug of war with our child which my ex started I get a text from my ex's boyfriend.

You know, the one who shows up to parenting exchanges to argue with me about the court record.

For some reason that guy has started sending aggressive text to me right after my ex getting served bc he's embarassed by his conduct at parenting exchanges and doesn't want to be in the court record.

Simple solution, don't harass a black dads

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/116324621752151331

#ParentingWhileBlack

The reality is, is that the courts have to take interferance during custody disputes extremely seriously.

There's a WELL known pattern and history of people just like this white-knighting boyfriends becoming involved in child custody disputes which do not involve them.

Here's a recent story where a woman had a new partner and was going through a custody dispute. She decided to settle it by having the new bf murder the old one.

Now both are facing life in jail.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PiX34h0zHKk

I take these threats, intimidation and harassment from my ex's MULTIPLE boyfriends who've become engaged in my child's life very seriously.

I will do everything in power to keep these egotistical hanger-ons away from my child.

And this is the point in the thread where I remind folks, how important legal aid has been in documenting and informing the courts about this horrific pattern of mistreament I've been going through.

I just want to be left the fuck alone.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

Meanwhile, mind you all the same day, local "gossip" tiktok-er Areej Hakim posted their latest video about me.

In this nearly 7minute long hate rant video posted by my counter parent's friend they describe getting to know my ex and explaining how I'm not a "real" Black activist because I don't have a corporate job OR corporate funding for my businesses.

Again, thanks again for tipping me off on this type of content for the court recorded.

https://partyon.xyz/@nullagent/116324621752151331

The tiktoker's video is absurdly long and between child care and court documents it IS challenging to document the harassment I've going through.

In this clip they are baffled about community spaces and sliding scale membership dues.

They claim I run a hate page.

I do not.

I have only ever reposted their own words in this thread and kindly ask them to please stop.

This is no way to resolve a custody process.

Please be adults and cut it out.

#Hacker #HackerSpace #TikTokAntics

Hoping to be able to buy a transit pass this week. They're about $100 a month which is a great deal but you basically have to pay your fares for the month up front.

Would be nice to make it to $500 so I can get a monthly fare pass and save money.

Goal $890 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support

One-time Direct Donation

Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://chuffed.org/project/145522-help-falsely-accused-black-dad-get-back-on-his-feet

#MutualAidRequest #ParentingWhileBlack #Transit

Police contact again today while handing off my child.

I've been contacted by the cops so much the officers and I are starting to recognize each other.

Today I asked the cop: "how many of these types of standby's have you done in your career"

The cop replied "only a few"

I asked how many of those were the false calls I've been harassed by, he said "most of them".

#ParentingWhileBlack #ACAB #FamilyCourt #ParentsNotPolice #BlackMastodon

Most of my life I see possibility, hope and change.

But damn, nothing can get you down more than having to go to court to be able to see your child.

I take ZERO joy in having to go to court to recitifiy this kidnapping situation which is STILL on going.

I couldn't have done any of this without help and sadly I need significantly more help to keep up the fight.

Can we double the legal fund before the end of may?

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#BlackDadsMatter #LegalFund #ParentingWhileBlack

Ok so we're ending the month about ̶$̶5̶0̶0̶ (edit its closer to $1000) behind on bills and more housing insecure than we started the month.

Goal $1001 / $2000

💸 Bills + Bus Pass $1000
🥣 Groceries $500
👨🏿‍🍼 Baby Supplies $500

Ways to support
One-time Direct Donation
Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#ParentingWhileBlack #BlackMastodon #MutualAidRequest

Hey ummm, so we're more housing insecure than the start of April and our storage unit is an important lifeline.

We're several months behind on rent and it's going into auction rn.

Update - Need met on the storage bill

̶$̶1̶5̶4̶ ̶/̶ ̶$̶8̶5̶0̶

Ways to support
One-time Direct Donation
Venmo/Paypal - $nullagent

https://www.paypal.me/nullagent

https://ko-fi.com/nullagent

#ParentingWhileBlack #HelpFolksLive2026 #MutualAidRequest #Homeless #Housing #TheRentIsTooDamnedHigh

Police contact again today during child exchange.

We have a hearing date of June 22nd to address this issue and more. But I need to make a payment to my family law lawyer this month to keep him fully engaged.

He's been doing great work, it's just wild how long the courts will allow this shit to go on before acting.

Thanks again for the support you've shown my child and I so far. I can see the light at end coming up.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack #FamilyLaw #BlackDadsMatter

Today's cops assured me these frivolous calls aren't harassment because they've attended four of them and saw nothing wrong.

Bruh... cop logic is undefeated 😅

How the fuck would I ever have enough cop contact for a cop to talk to me 4x with no justification if it weren't harassment.

You know, WA actually has laws about this shit, its absolutely unambiguous.

It is illegal in WA to cause the cops to talk to someone multiple times over FALSE claims.

#KarenLaw

A question I'm asked a lot lately: "Why is it dangerous to be around SPD officers?"

Case in-point these are the most jumpiest trigger happiest, most officers at Jan 6th fools on planet earth.

Literally the MOST coup cops klan members in the entire US.

So tell me more about how calling these guys on me upto 3x times a week is "in the best interest of the child"

https://www.divestspd.com/p/a-cop-shot-a-wall-at-the-north-precinct

#SPD #ACAB

No no, the cops who have FAKE TOMBSTONES & MAGA flags are great with kids, I'm told.

Literally the EXACT same station is the one my cops are based out of.

They are literally the KKK, just ICE for Black folks. They literally celebrate the deaths of Black men in particular.

https://publicola.com/2023/07/20/spd-chief-says-he-doesnt-know-how-fake-tombstone-for-police-shooting-victim-ended-up-on-display-in-precinct-break-room/

#SPD #Seattle #ParentingWhileBlack

If the actual reality of policing weren't enough I only need to look at the health issues I and men other Black men face due to the stresses systemic racism put us through.

I know many people get this, but its hardest seeing people who should know better weaponize a genocidal system that just runs slowly in isolation on Black men.

This shit is real, its wrong and more people should actually find MORE ways to stand up for Black people.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cortisol

Only way out remains literally the same as slavery.... you can buy your way out.

Some people will celebrate hard work... but no this is torture, this is harm this shit fucking sucks and needs to stop.

I'm VERY fortunate to be a person who knows I can buy my way out and to have LEGAL skills which afford me that pathway.

Most Black men cannot begin to adapt to the level of harm I've endured for the better part of a decade.

I am not a success story, I'm the messenger for ppl who didn't make it.

Fuck. It's 2hrs post police contact, anxiety was high af as usual heading into exchange and feel uncomfortable high still now.

Love this as the start to my work week. Need to do a self care routine to chill out and be able to focus.

I try not to post this shit but fuck I'm getting VERY tired of this.

#ParentingWhileBlack

Police contact again today due to my counter part refusing the exchange until they had berated me to their satisfaction.

We haven't seen an legal fund donations in about 20 days, could you help us turn that around?

My lawyer has been amazingly lenient on billing but I do try and pay a bit each month, sadly that's not actually possible without outside help so please consider donating towards legal fund 👇🏿

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#ParentingWhileBlack #LegalFund #MutualAidRequest

I had police contact again Friday.

My counter parent and guest laughed in my face and taunted the entire time for the third time this week.

Imagine one parent working hard, trying to make ends meet. And the other parent constantly calling the cops and attempting to provoke negative police interactions THREE times a week in front of a child.

Just two more months of this before court.

#ParentsNotPolice #ParentingWhileBlack #PNW #Seattle #ACAB #SPD #FamilyLaw #FamilyCourt

Police contact again last week and today.

Today's cop debated me for 10minutes about how they aren't harassing me. 😬

Nothing like an argumenative pig with a gun and a point to prove to start the morning.

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#kindness #parentingwhileblack #blackdadsmatter #acab

Police contact for TWENTY minutes again yesterday.

The cops are now on an uninterrupted SIX exchange streak of "totally not harassing" contact.

This month, I've spent HOURs with cops due to false calls.

For the past THREE weeks everytime I've exchanged my child the cops were present.

That's ok, I'll make lemon pound cake from this.

#lemonpoundcake #SPD #acab

Set your calendar, we're in the final count down to a pretty important court hearing in this process, I'd appreciate court watch support on June 22nd 1pm.

As always if you're planning to attend please respect all court rules and feel free to let me know you're coming so I can ensure guests are admitted.

There's a public guide on how to observe court below.

Hearing zoom links will be on this page as well day of:

https://kingcounty.gov/en/court/superior-court/courts-jails-legal-system/court-calendars-locations-operations/superior-court-calendars-schedules/virtual-family-law-hearings

#CourtWatch #BlackDadsMatter #FamilyCourt #FamilyLaw

Preparing for court is a lot of work and doing that while being a parent is a monumental task.

If you'd like to support my legal fund you can do so on go fund me below. The current outstanding legal bill is about $22k right now so anything helps.

And if direct aid is more your style you find me on paypal or venmo as $nullagent

https://www.gofundme.com/f/standing-with-alan-in-his-legal-fight

#MutualAidRequest #LegalFund #HelpFolksLive2026 #BlackDadsMatter

It's been about a month since I wrote an update. I hoped my counter part would de-escalate but the opposite has happened.

Not only have they continued to call the cops on me for every child exchange, causing countless unnecessary police contacts, now they have become physically aggressive and assaulted me TWICE in the past month.

Most recently a week or so ago they wrestled with me to try and steal my ear buds at an exchange in front of the cops they called.

I can't make this shit up.

At another recent exchange I was dropping off our child, the cops didn't come to my ex's frivolous call.... so my ex simply NEVER came to pickup our child.

Literally now says they will simply not exchange our child ever again if the cops don't attend all of their karen calls.

I spoke to my lawyer and he advised me to leave after a reasonable wait.

So I did, my ex NEVER showed up for 25 minutes.

The moment I left my ex reported me to the cops for kidnapping!

Evidently a small manhunt was carried out by SPD attempting to locate me... but NEVER considering the fact that my ex literally is admitting that they simply never came to pickup our child THEN claimed that was kidnapping within minutes of my reasonable reaction of NOT waiting indefinitly for some strange cop + ex interaction which is NOT in any way required to exchange our child.

So anywho an asian owned coffee shop got raided by cops and so did a trans run NPO bc of my ex's false call.

#acab

My ex finally did arrive and receive my daughter at the next exchange WITHOUT any cops present I might add.

However, at my next time to pickup my child my ex again called the cops on me.

Exchanges are supposed to happend exactly at the scheduled time. I arrived a minute early. Waited 5mins passed and a cop showed up.

He waited and demanded to know where the caller, my ex, was bc he was going to leave if they weren't present.

Which he did after a short wait and some radio chatter.