Massive breakthroughs with my own journey with disability today, and the realisation that I was treating a whole load of(mundane)tasks as things just I had to do before "real work" on other things. Truth is, it's ALL work. It all takes energy, especially as a disabled guy. I feel like this is a pivotal shift, and will help me be able to allocate my energy better, as well as feel like I am achieving things better.

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@BowieSpace even the rest parts are part of "the work!" it's something I've been processing myself as well
@Bikil yesss! I think I still had internalised ableism towards myself, as well as(as a trans man who only came oy later in life)having been raised with mysogynistic views from parents ("housework/errands are not work" etc). It takes a while to deprogram all that BS sometimes I guess.
@BowieSpace it really does! I mean, I'm 52 and have been out as trans for 16 years and I'm still unlearning and relearning this shit!