I keep hearing people I know who I thought genuinely cared for the people on the ragged edges of US society saying that theyâre not going to vote for Harris. I wish theyâd see voting as a thing we do *for each other* instead of something that speaks to your own self-centered opinion.
Itâs just moral narcissism - the idea that how it makes you feel about yourself is the most important thing. Itâs wildly, WILDLY selfish. And these are the same people who lecture others about privilege.
Wild.
People say I shouldnât shame others for not voting, but fuck that. We have this one lever we get to pull. This one task. If you canât make that bare minimum requirement to participate in a democracy, I have no goddamn respect for you. Youâre not more morally pure for opting out, youâre just a petulant child.
Voting isnât everything, but itâs the first thing. If you have this right that so many fought and bled for and you donât use it, shame on you.
louder for the toxic idealists in the back:
if you don't #vote, you don't have morality, you have self congratulatory ego masturbation
belief without action is not morality. withholding action when the stakes are clear on things you *say* you care about is not highmindedness, it's impotency
one order out: not being aware of the stakes makes you absurdly clueless
and finally "both sides the same" is a moronic lie. i will consider you a russian troll for that in intellectual charity
You're cutting yourself out of the process.
After Nov 2024 I expect to frequently be asking "Who did you vote for?". If the answer isn't "Harris", I'll know it's not worth spending my energy engaging with you.
"Harris, reluctantly", or "Hated myself, but in the end Harris" are fine, just fine. Voting often involves unpleasant options, and I'll be thankful to you that you did a difficult thing.
Most just like the aesthetics of rebellion and violence... it's just another way of glorifying hatred and death for those you think are "bad" for society.
Doctor Who had a really good episode on this: "Truth or Consequences". The problem is not with wanting "revolution" it's that people aren't thinking about the after revolution. At a certain point, unless you just want 24/7/365 war and death (which a good portion do want), you need to become the person arguing against revolution and finding a way to incorporate other views. And then you're right back where you started, needing to vote. The only difference is how many people you killed and made suffer.
So, unless the goal is increasing that number, you vote.
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exactly
say those romanticizing revolution somehow live through the endless suffering death and injustice of an actual civil war
what appears on the other side?
well, as stakeholders in the glorious struggle, they get a voice in the decisions the new govt makes
that means they, uh, will vote?
setting aside those who think "no govt" is possible and the warlords that appear in the vacuum of power
and set aside those who want a left leaning totalitarian govt
@fraying
This is something I never could, and probably never will, understand.
"I don't agree with anything he says, but she isn't quite aligned with my beliefs either, so I'm not going to vote!"
And I've noticed there are 2 separate and distinct types of people who do this - those who are well enough off that they will barely notice the hit to their livelihood that letting The Other Guy win will entail, at least at first, and those who will suffer the most.
And I dont get either of them.
@stuartb @fraying One is privilege and the other is fatalism.
There's also the third crew: the ones who think if things get horribly worse, then "complacent" public will have no choice but to fight in their bloody revolution. But seeing as how even a pandemic that killed a million plus due to malevolent mismanagement didn't trigger that, nothing else will, either.
@fraying all of this â I'm just agog that people don't understand voting is a DUTY â it's an act you take to participate in a democratic society, so you can keep it and work towards a better world.
I also think a huge number of the supposed "people" online who are saying "don't vote" aren't people at all â or they're agents for malevolent forces.
For those who truly have bought into this childish idea of moral purity by not voting â they're simply helping the fascists and they know it
@fraying It's not so simple.
Voting isn't the first thing but the minimal.
It is legit to ask for voting to any standard individual who isn't engaged in any other political activities.
However there are people rather more engaged in improving the life of the others, participating in whatever organization of their choice or doing polithics every single day at the streets.
Those people have all the right to decide that they don't want to validate the current statu quo.
@fraying Just the opposite,
Those lazy people, who as the only political activity just vote once every 4 years should not claim anything to those who are doing polithics every single day.
This said, i'm in the lazy 'only vote' team who annoy my even lazier 'not even voting' environment, to vote.
I just realize that not all the not voters are the same , nor their motivations are just 'moral narcissism'
@fraying They are »doing« very different things.
Do > words
It is just democracy allow people to vote options that we don't like, including not voting at all.
We are in a dead end and it seems clearly that we are not going to reach anything similar to an agreement.
Let me to offer to you a final though, not directly related with the 'not voting categories' which we has been discussing:
if you want to movilize previous staled votes, you should try to seduce them rather than despice them.
And also, if somebody is not going to vote or is going to vote an option that you don't like, trying to understand why will be more productive than simply overlook them.
@fraying googled.
It seems to be a pretty usa centric concept with this full thing about saying vs doing, i was just applying the concept of narcissism to moral until now.
My full point is that Do > say and do every day > vote once every 4 years, so nothing against critizise those who doesn't vote as a pose (possing?) but all against about simplifying all the not voters in the same category
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To avoid missunderstandings this is the definition that i'm managing from https://www.commentary.org/articles/roger-simon/moral-narcissism-least-great-generation/
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«That form is moral narcissismâa pathology that underlies the whole liberal left ethic today and some of the right as well. What exactly is this form of narcissism that is destroyingâif it hasnât already destroyedâour families, friendships, workplace atmosphere, and democratic republic?
The short form is this: What you believe, or claim to believe or say you believeânot what you do or how you act or what the results of your actions may beâdefines you as a person and makes you âgood.â It is how your life will be judged by others and by yourself. In 19th-century France, the gastronome Jean Brillat-Savarin told us that âyou are what you eat.â In 21st-century America, almost all of us seem to have concluded that âyou are what you say you are. You are what you proclaim your values to be, irrespective of their consequences.â That is moral narcissism.»
So are you demonstrating free speech or just being rude?
@fraying This with bells on. My grandparents in Northern Ireland were denied their votes sometimes because they were Catholic. Also, I got elected to the Labour Party executive (a tiny counterpart of the DNC) because a vote was counted incorrectly. 2 of my political friends got elected to districts by a single vote.
Every vote counts. Use it. A lot of people don't get to or don't bother.
(Sorry for preaching to the converted!)
@fraying Actually I need to clarify something important - I got elected to the Labour executive after a recount which I requested. The initial ballot count mistakenly allocated a vote for me to someone else.
I did not get elected because of a single vote going to me in error.
@amye Vote like someone you love is an immigrant in the US.
Vote like someone you love is gay or trans in the US.
Vote like someone you love is going to be rounded up and put in the camps Republicans have said they want to set up.