The After-Date Date: Bringing It All Back Together

Cuckolding is far more than just a wife seeking pleasure outside her marriage—it’s a deeply intimate, psychological, and emotional journey that involves both partners.

Evolving Your Man

I'm awake too early (thanks to the toddler alarm clock) so I'm reposting my essay from the beginning of the year as a reminder to keep engaging with the important project of personal #reconnection

https://joshsutphin.com/blog/our-year-of-reconnection.html

Related to the upstream post (with now paywalled article link).

Excerpt from the link below:

'The Zulu word ubuntu grew from the phrase umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu (“a person is a person because of other people”). Justice Yvonne Mokgoro of South Africa describes ubuntu as encompassing “group solidarity, compassion, respect, human dignity, conformity to basic norms and collective unity; in its fundamental sense it denotes humanity and morality.” A Black constitutional lawyer and apartheid-era activist, Mokgoro explains that the spirit of ubuntu “emphasizes respect for human dignity, marking a shift from confrontation to conciliation.” '

#Peace #Unity #Oneness #Reconnection #Earth #Humans #FoodForThought #Giubuntu #RandomMusings

https://www.linkedin.com/posts/jeff-harti-8878965_rom%C3%A9o-dallaire-i-have-an-idea-for-how-to-activity-7181620134174756864-F-mp

Roméo Dallaire: I have an idea for how to fix our violent, tribal world | Jeff Harti

Words of wisdom, challenge, and hope from The Peace: A Warrior's Journey by Roméo Dallaire, as quoted in the Toronto Star: "Humanism defined the Renaissance, eradicated the old order and transformed art, politics and religion. But it also led, like an arrow’s flight, to an individualism that became the cornerstone of industrialization, capitalism and colonialism. In our era of revolutions, nothing is clearer than the need for us to reconnect to each other, in all our humanity, and to the Earth. We are at the point of such existential risk that we need to abandon self-interest. That era has failed all but the one per cent, and they are failing the rest of us every day. Our nuances and differences can be, and need to be, respected and celebrated. But to thrive we must move forward without friction and competition. This is a level of unity I believe we haven’t even perceived yet, but it is the only thing that will permit us to reinforce our ensemble, find the positives in our differences, and prevent conflict before it happens... Cultures with long enough histories all seem to create words to describe oneness among humans — the ties that bind us to each other and the planet. The national motto of Rwanda includes the Kinyarwanda word ubumwe, which means “unity” (umoja in Swahili). The Celtic word céile can refer to husband and wife, or an enemy in battle, both instances of people bound to each other. 五伦 (or Wu lun in Mandarin pinyin) refers to fundamental relationships in society, while asabiyyah is an Arabic concept of solidarity and cohesion in society, co-operation for the public good. German Mensch means “human being,” which in Yiddish gained the specifically positive characteristics of ethical integrity and moral rightness. The Zulu word ubuntu grew from the phrase umuntu ngumuntu ngabantu (“a person is a person because of other people”). Justice Yvonne Mokgoro of South Africa describes ubuntu as encompassing “group solidarity, compassion, respect, human dignity, conformity to basic norms and collective unity; in its fundamental sense it denotes humanity and morality.” A Black constitutional lawyer and apartheid-era activist, Mokgoro explains that the spirit of ubuntu “emphasizes respect for human dignity, marking a shift from confrontation to conciliation.” #Peace #Unity #Oneness #Reconnection #Earth #Humans #FoodForThought #Giubuntu #RandomMusings

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Proton and Heavy Ion Acceleration by Magnetic #Reconnection at the Near-Sun Heliospheric Current Sheet: https://iopscience.iop.org/article/10.3847/1538-4357/ae48f2 -> SwRI-led research indicates a more complex Sun’s magnetic engine: https://www.swri.org/newsroom/press-releases/swri-led-research-indicates-more-complex-sun-s-magnetic-engine
Proton and Heavy Ion Acceleration by Magnetic Reconnection at the Near-Sun Heliospheric Current Sheet

Proton and Heavy Ion Acceleration by Magnetic Reconnection at the Near-Sun Heliospheric Current Sheet, Desai, M. I., Drake, J. F., Swisdak, M., Fitzmaurice, A., McComas, D. J., Bale, S. D., Phan, T., Berland, G., Mitchell, D. G., Cohen, C. M. S., Hill, M. E., Christian, E. R., Schwadron, N. A., McNutt, R. L., Matthaeus, W. H., Rahmati, A., Whittlesey, P., Livi, R., Larson, D.

Stagnating Lost Lagoon in Stanley Park could be reconnected to ocean
Instead of a growing bloom of algae and worsening water quality — a result, the board says, of a century of infilling — a lagoon reconnected to the sea could see bird-rich mud flats at low tide, and marsh-like conditions at high tide.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/stagnant-lost-lagoon-reconnected-ocean-stanley-park-9.7125103?cmp=rss
One woman's journey exploring her Indigenous roots grows into ambitious teepee-making project
Brenda Mercer was taken from her Standing Buffalo Dakota Nation family as part of the Sixties Scoop. Since then, she's been trying to reconnect with her Indigenous roots. She recently received a grant to build seven teepees in Medicine Hat, Alta.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/teepees-medicine-hat-brenda-mercer-9.7114796?cmp=rss
This woman is trying to build 7 teepees in Medicine Hat by June
Brenda Mercer was taken from her Standing Buffalo Dakota Nation family as part of the Sixties Scoop. Since then, she's been trying to reconnect with her Indigenous roots. She recently received a grant to build seven teepees in Medicine Hat, Alta.
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/teepees-medicine-hat-brenda-mercer-9.7114796?cmp=rss

In recent years, the #ParkerSolarProbe and #SolarOrbiter probes have delivered a wealth of data about our #Sun, its surface—precisely where the #SolarWind originates. The ubiquitous presence of #plasma jets and magnetic field reversals suggests that a significant portion of the wind forms through dynamic processes involving magnetic #reconnection and transient energy releases.

This Thursday, Alexis Rouillard will review recent research on the dynamics of the solar wind: https://www.irap.omp.eu/event/the-tempestuous-origins-of-the-solar-wind-how-parker-and-solar-orbiter-are-probing-our-stars-atmosphere/

Dare Greatly 10/10
Scarcity survives through shame, comparison, and disengagement—keeping us small, cautious, and disconnected. Awareness is the first step out. 🚪
#ShameAwareness #Reconnection #EmotionalFreedom