Considering the subject of #Threema getting sold by one private equity firm to another, with former KKR and Morgan Stanley staff at its helm, I‘m reminded of the poignancy of a point @cyberlyra made in the #OptOutProject.
Avoiding the lock-in effect of tech companies, stay mobile and ready to move on any time.
We’ve witnessed enshitification too often to maintain the illusion a good thing will remain good.
With #diday her project is more relevant then ever.
The Opt Out Project
".. live without Big Tech"
https://www.optoutproject.net/
@julian That's a great post, thanks for sharing!
"just FOMO and inertia" really hits the nail on the head for me.
Also awesome to see that #OptOutProject helped you, as @janet is one of our founders!
Well, getting up at 4AM to start the day’s journey and returning home at 11:45PM wasn’t exactly… relaxing… but there is no doubt in my mind that it was worth every single minute to meetup with and get to learn from the folks at #fedicon
Crashing in my own bed feels very very good. Goodnight fedizens, may your dreams be filled with #mosstodon and #bloomscrolling while also righting all that is wrong with the social media world!
#dreamers #doers #makeithappen #community #takebacktheSocialWeb #optoutproject
Hold on, we have a NASA alum Janet from @TheBulletin here and she is talking about how the "good guys" (eg Apple) became what they said they would never be!
How do we help people to opt out?
#fedicon #apple #socialmedia #optoutproject #opensocialweb #techreclaimers
I've been working on moving my digital life away from exploitative companies and toward more positive options. I'm following The Opt Out Project, https://www.optoutproject.net/the-cyber-cleanse-take-back-your-digital-footprint/ . Today I posted about my reasons for taking on this project, https://davidbruffner.com/2025/07/26/starting-my-opt-out-project/. Essentially, I want to avoid ads, tracking, AI slop, proprietary code, and platforms that overpower their users. I want to go towards services that value consent, privacy, that encourage learning how things work, and that are built by and for the community.
Questions about small learning groups
In my last post Self-directed small groups for learning, I talked about wanting to start a group where we support each other with personal projects and learning. I reached out to some friends and acquaintances to see if people were interested. Some people are interested, and I had the first meeting with one other person this week. It’s exciting to get started! But many of the people I talked to had questions about this group idea. Here are some: what kind of projects? What is the topic or theme? Is it about accountability? Do you need to be a programmer/tech person to join? These questions helped to clarify what kind of group I’m hoping to form.
I am imagining a group where the members are connected by a desire and ability to support each other to make progress on their personal projects or learning endeavors. On the desire to help side, the members ideally will be curious about the other member’s project and be ready to hear about these projects, even if it is about topics that they are unfamiliar with. In my experience, just having the desire to help is usually enough because there are many ways to support that do not require specialized knowledge. Just listening and asking clarifying questions can be enough to help someone solve a problem (even a rubber duck can help!).
But there could be situations where there are barriers that prevent people from effectively supporting each other. With some projects people are essentially speaking different languages because the knowledge needed for a project is so specialized. Relatedly some members might be triggered by certain subject if they had a negative experience it (maybe a terrible physics class). Alternatively people might want to meet with people with similar experience and interests. In these cases, it probably would be better if people formed separate groups.
With that clarification of the kind of group I’m interested in, here are my responses to the questions:
I hope that helps clarify what I’m aiming for. If you’re interested reach out!
#accountability #community #learning #OptOutProject #smallGroup