How many of you can manifest a cup of coffee, butterflies, numbers, signs, and a whole bunch of other little things easily?

How many of you have bigger goals, maybe to simply feel better in your life, and it's like pulling teeth? You can't seem to get there no matter what you do.

What if I told you there was a reason for that?

The path to the bigger goals includes healing your wounds. The path to the cup of coffee doesn't include healing your wounds. That is the biggest difference between the two. When you want the bigger goals, you're going to have to heal the wounds to do it.

Now you want to understand why that is. Why can't I just have what I want outright? Why is it so much work?

Your goal requires change, lots of change. My goals required change.

To be able to change you have to have the courage to do that. Most people don't have the courage to do that. The second they run into an obstacle that requires them to change something internally or externally, they head for the hills because change is scary.

Those obstacles make you question what you want because you're still defending the pain. You're holding onto those wounds. You don't really want to do that work. I get it. I mean who wants to do it? Well I do now, but I'm weird that way and I didn't start there.

It comes down to what you're focusing on. When you focus on needing to heal all this stuff it causes overwhelm, you question everything, and you walk away from it. When you focus on having what you want and you make the goal the primary purpose for doing the work, it gives you a focus that isn't painful. It makes it more likely you'll move forward.

Sometimes in that you tell yourself a story that makes you a victim of the manifestation process. You blame the Universe for not giving you what you want. The reason you can have the coffee so easily is because you're not scared of it. But you are still scared of the changes you need to make to have the bigger goals. That's why the bigger goals don't come.

If you can manifest it and then you lose it right away, there's healing in that too. There's a reason the path opened up temporarily. You just need to figure out why you lost it but also why you were able to have it. What's the wound? Heal that and then you can work towards having it back.

You're creating a relationship with what you want. You're focusing on what you want and it allows you to actually care about it enough to want to do the work. The reason you detach from your goals so easily is because you protect yourself. The pain makes you protect yourself from your goal. You protect yourself because you're still haven't made the choice to heal so you can have what you want.

You're not being punished. The Universe isn't being mean. It actually wants you to be okay. It wants you to be happy. It wants you to have what you want. But to be happy you have to let go of the pain. You have to be willing to change and do the work.

Yes, I used to think the Universe was just out to get me too. I didn't understand why I couldn't just have it from my original, rather painful comfort zone. Now I get it. There was no way for me to do what I do now from there. Remember, I didn't know I wanted this until I was doing it. Sometimes the goal your spirit has gets revealed a little later in the process. You need to heal first because if you saw the bigger goal right away you'd run away screaming immediately. A little bit of healing allows you to stay in the room when the bigger goal gets revealed. There is method in the madness.

It's a process. Your job is to create that deeper relationship with what you want so that you can focus on it instead of all the crap. It's what gives you the motivation to do the work. Maybe that just means for right now, you focus on feeling better. It's a perfectly good goal. If you're willing to just follow the breadcrumb trail that shows up, you can have what you want.

There's a path there. Are you willing to follow it?

Love to all.

Della

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