When Jalan and I first met, we set out as Friends (really, Acquaintances) With Kinky Benefits, neither of us looking for an LTR, much less a marriage.
We also switched a lot. She was/is too sadistic for me to accommodate (meaning she couldn't go hard enough to be satisfying without an actual masochist on the other end), but there were and are other things, and I enjoyed topping in sexual bondage.
After some time of this, and the friendship being established, we stumbled* into talking about trying relational D/s together.
15 years ago today was what we refer to as "flipping the switch."
We'd gone to a small golf resort for the weekend. She tied me down, blindfolded and gagged me, then scrawled "MINE" across my chest in bright red lipstick (for me to learn later, obviously).
*Seriously, stumbled into it. I misinterpreted something she'd said as opening the topic of D/s, responded as if she had, then she realized it might be a good idea to follow up on.
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