XMAS PSYCHOLOGY 8/10
Step 3: Stay curious and kind. When politics arise, listen without rushing to agree or disagree—seek perspective, not victory. 🧭
#KindCommunication #PerspectiveTaking #CalmConversations

Just published: Unlock Your Hidden Power - The Empathy Advantage. Think empathy is just being nice? Wrong. Discover how this often-misunderstood trait fuels true strength, success, and connection in life.

https://medium.com/@coaching_13901/unlock-your-hidden-power-the-empathy-advantage-caf8dbf55892

#EmpathyMatters, #EmotionalIntelligence, #LeadershipSkills, #HumanConnection, #ActiveListening, #PerspectiveTaking

🧵 1/5 School sent an email today about an incident. My son refused to leave a situation where another peer (a friend) was escalated and hitting themselves. My son was reprimanded and will have consequences tomorrow at school.

At first I thought he’d been triggered and became escalated himself. But why punish him for that? Was it “unsafe?”

#ActuallyAutistic #ADHD #AuDHD #ParentingWhileAutistic #AutisticParentng #SelfAdvocacy #PerspectiveTaking #Empathy @actuallyautistic

Ever seen a friendly debate deteriorate into personal attacks? Let's explore how to engage differences of opinion constructively when tensions run high. With wisdom and compassion, we can rise above the mudslinging.

https://abeautifulmess.substack.com/p/life-lessons-from-the-pigpen-navigating

#ConflictResolution #EmotionalIntelligence #CriticalThinking #Perspectivetaking #Compassion #Equanimity #WinWinSolutions #SelfAwareness #Discernment #GrowthMindset #SharedHumanity #NavigatingDifferences #HealthyDebate #ABeautifulMess

Life Lessons From the Pigpen: Navigating Conflict with Wisdom

It started as a lively debate night with friends over craft beers just our usual free-flowing exchange of perspectives on hot topics. But this time, things took an ugly turn. The conversation shifted to today's polarized politics. Two friends in particular, Mike and Steve, fixated on proving each other wrong. Despite everyone’s pleas to stay thoughtful, they kept making increasingly angry comments.

A Beautiful Mess
Perspective taking not only works in business but is also a powerful way to connect with all the important people in our lives. Thinking of it as "seeing the pictures in their heads" can be especially useful with children. If you have ever learned a second language, you know the feeling of knowing many things but struggling to express them. Young children feel the same. This practice cultivates their sense of confidence and self reliance. #PerspectiveTaking #Negotiations #Family
One of the best reasons for a hiring an executive coach I have ever heard was, "We don't know how we come across to others." A good coach helps us see ourselves more clearly. Adam Grant talked about the power of perspective taking. To me this is another form, but applied personally.
How do you present?
Do you even want to know?
Why is that scary?
#Personality #PerspectiveTaking #Leadership
@slooterman That said, my #autism results in my needing a break from the kiddo periodically. But we often use these as teachable moments for how to address #overstimulation and #perspectivetaking. 😁 #actuallyautistic #autisticparenting @actuallyautistic