So there's that thing where people, in response to a concern or objection you raise, come back with "Just do [thing]."

I've seen it pointed out that the inclusion of the word "just" is a tell that they're judging you and dismissing your concerns and experience.

But I'm blanking on where I saw that. It smells like a Captain Awkward observation, but the string search is insufficiently distinct to pull up any specific results.

Anybody have a pointer?

#CaptainAwkward #Humaning

"What is your belief about why good things come to you? What is your belief about how you manage to have, in your life, things that you value? ...If you believe that good things only come to you because you make yourself suffer and work really hard for them, then you will be looking for ways to suffer and work really hard."

--Amanda Doyle,
We Can Do Hard Things Podcast

#humaning
#adulting
#SayNoToHustleCulture
#YouDeserveGoodThings
#YouDeserveRest
#work
#rest
#truth

Sometimes I think my life is a series of rabbit holes and hobbit holes following each other in varying speeds of succession.

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#humaning
#adulting
#MiddleEarth
#Wonderland
#LifeTheUniverseAndEverything