#biphobie #biphobia
J'ai aussi eu un roman de la part d'une meuf que j'ai rencontré dans une salle connotée punk diy et anar.
La première chose qu'elle m'a dit en se rencontrant, c'est qu'elle m'a demandé comment je m'appelle, puis a répondu "ah ouais, de toute façon les prénoms des cis ils sont faciles". Puis elle m'a gearsplain en me montrant son studio d'enregistrement très très cher dans la foulée alors que j'allais littéralement jouer le soir même. Bref voici le roman

On a-dore

I began this thread with acknowledging that I was very messily online about my feelings around #ComingOut later in life as #bisexual, as #queer, because I wanted to leave something for someone else, anyone else, who might resonate with it. I was also doing it for my closeted self who wasn't able to grapple with those feelings.

I feel like this thread has been for my past self who was out but who was conflicted about her place in the #LGBTQ community, who was struggling with internalized #biphobia an a lot of #shame, and who was grieving who and what she could have been. I want to tell her it's okay. It's okay for her to feel all the confusion and grief and shame. I want to tell her that, even though she can't see it, there is a way through it all. It doesn't look like what she thinks it does. It's going to involve her shedding some maladaptive ways of thinking to deepen her understanding of love and of herself.