here’s what I propose:

Instead of “it’s never too late to transition”

we say “it’s never too late to stop being a transmedkcalist piece of shit”

“it’s never too late to stop judging trans women on how attractive they can potentially end up being if they started medical transition now”

“it’s never too late to kill your brain worms”

“it’s never too late to stop measuring your progress by how much you will look cis”

in a world in which several countries have just banned puberty blockers, and are considering banning any kind of gender affirming care for adults too, with an age threshold that keeps creeping up from 19, to 25, to 30, to 40… and 200 year wait times

I need you to appreciate how “i transitioned at 18, it’s never too late” is speaking from a place of a fuck of a lot of privilege, the privilege of.calling a full year earlier than what many are now being are told is the earliest they can start “late”.

and frankly tone deafness about what many people *under 18* are facing now, being locked out of transition care until they’re wayyyy older than 18, if ever.

it’s not liberation. it’s not acknowledging the pain of wrong puberty. it’s applying a moral judgement to age of transition, when it’s not about courage, or individual agency. it’s about family, community and legal and medical support.

it’s kind of a big “fuck you, got mine” to both older and younger trans people

they want to force us to transition older to stop us from being able to pass as well

they morally judge and shame those who do it older, because passing and being fuckable is our only possible value

because it’s not like we’re human beings or anything we’re just porn catagory novelty counterfeit women