Y’all, we need to have a Talk about relatively well-meaning but sexist assumptions. I’m not singling anyone out - this happens to me a lot.
I get routine pings to speak, present, or serve on boards related to educating kids (especially girls) on tech, and build DEI programs. The people who ask usually start with “because you are an expert on it”.
I am very happy to be an expert on a few things - namely digital forensics and incident response and industrial cybersecurity. I’m passable at threat intel and OSINT. It wouldn’t be embarrassing for me to talk about martial arts.
However, I have zero training on DEI or girls in tech initiatives (that’s a whole real career field), and I have no children. I’m don’t even have biological nieces or nephews. If you’re saying you think I’m an expert at that, it means someone is just looking at how I appear and making assumptions, then asking me to do free work. Others may not be as chill about this.