@dzwiedziu @scottjenson @tael
In fact, here's some free ideas that could decrease this friction:
1. Include explanation of *what signal missing alt text sends* in UI warning about missing alt text. "Many people can't access this post without alt text. Posting without alt text signals a lack of respect to those communities. Use #/alt4me to ask for help with alt text." This would decrease posts which lack alt text out of ignorance, and fit those who persist it explains ahead of time why they get people reminding them about the issue.
2. (More technically challenging) For posts without alt text, maintain a counter per-user and display (in the alt text slot) "this is this user's Nth post without alt text" capping out at 1000 or something. Make sure to subtract when alt text gets edited in. This helps those who would reply with a reminder understand whether it's someone new who just doesn't know/understand, or whether it's someone who doesn't care. For those who don't care, you'd see much less falloff.
Harder to do similar with CW as it's not possible to know automatically when one was warranted. Then again I've very rarely seen direct CW-nagging.
By the way, do you know who I *do* see on the fediverse? Blind users and people dealing with various traumas. If you had a button that would instantly silence CW and alt-text nagging, guess who would leave? I half-understand that @scottjenson is unconsciously trolling at this point, fixed in his opinions and unwilling to listen to any of the criticism here so he's trying to form arguments that defend his own ego, but every change-to-others'-social-behaviors that he's asking for here is one that would directly make some portion of fedi users less comfortable, and he hasn't been willing to face the racism issue head-on, which is almost certainly a *much* bigger reason for leaving than anything he's mentioned.
The counter-point about echo chambers is spot-on here.