TRANS MASCS & MEN: I want to start a β€œBuy a trans guy a pizza day” to parallel the β€œbuy a trans girl a pizza day.” What date do you think would be a good date for that?

Similar to how the latter helps us celebrate Mira Bellwether, it would be lovely to pick a day that lets us celebrate a trans man or trans masc who has been important to the community, but is maybe underrecognized.

#TransMen #TransMan #TransMasc

@JoscelynTransient 100% this should be a thing

@JoscelynTransient gonna embarrass him maybe, but we should do a @sayyid_qishta day

Just a rad person and amazing artist

@kawaiipunk @JoscelynTransient @sayyid_qishta that would make a lot of Egyptian trans men very happy (of which I know many), just his Mastodon username alone brings us a lot of joy (it's a uniquely Egyptian word) 😁
@JoscelynTransient quick, someone figure out when Buck Angel's birthday is so we absolutely don't have it on that day /s
@JoscelynTransient I always can enjoy a pizza on 4/20 like my pal Dock said πŸ˜ŽπŸ³οΈβ€βš§οΈπŸ‰ so that’s a good day IMO!
@JoscelynTransient great idea! I have no instant ideas on dates though.
@JoscelynTransient When's Jamison Green's birthday? Maybe Chaz Bono or Elliot Page.
@JoscelynTransient i'm not sure if it started in parallel to the one for Mira or what but there is already "buy a trans person a nice snack" and trans pizza day run by Syrus Marcus Ware on TDOV
@JoscelynTransient also then does this necessitate a pizza for nonbinary people day
@JoscelynTransient anyway Lou Sullivan's birthday was June 16th
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lou_Sullivan
Lou Sullivan - Wikipedia

@forestine I love that idea, Lou would be a great person to honor! @JoscelynTransient

@forestine @JoscelynTransient

I came here to recommend Lou as well. Since you have, I'll just +1 that :)

@forestine I’ve definitely thought about a nonbinary/agender/genderqueer day too for those completely outside the other two. I think it would be nice to have days where each part of our community gets some special love and care. I know on Tuesday, it actually made me tear up a bit to be taken care of and have some folks buy me a pizza πŸ₯°
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I wasn't even aware of the one pizza day. Definitely agree that just a simple "buy a trans person a treat" day works for folks like me that aren't compatible with binary classifiers   
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@forestine @JoscelynTransient so that’s the thing that bugs me, mira’s thing is also on TDOV, and i have never felt good about trans girls squatting on a holiday that’s meant for all trans people.

i mean like honestly i don’t think giving pizza to trans people needs a binary gender at all? i am probably a bit biased but even so, almost any other day would be better?

@forestine @JoscelynTransient @jepyang Honestly I didn't even know that. I thought that was just part of TDoV and not something separate from that.

And to the topic: Hell yeah! I want to give my trans brothers and siblings some pizza to munch on! 

@flamecat @forestine @JoscelynTransient i think it’s her birthday. and i’m all for honoring that. but also, it sucks to feel excluded on TDOV of all days.
@jepyang @forestine @JoscelynTransient I absolutely get that and I agree. Trans Day of Visibility should be for all trans people and trans mascs and non-binary people already are forgotten about all the time, so it's important to include them on that day.

@jepyang @forestine @JoscelynTransient Yeah, just noticed. πŸ˜… Sorry, already edited it. I should have looked at your profile sooner.

And yeah, go figure. I talk about forgotten trans people and I myself forget about non-binary people. πŸ™„

@JoscelynTransient I mean you could do it on the date of Leslie Feinbergs death, a trans masc trans rights advocate whos books are often called essential trans masc reading. They passed away due to complications from Lyme disease, which they only sought treatment for in its later stages due to medical discrimination.
@JoscelynTransient (trans girl here) this 100% should be a thing!! ​​ now to procure some pizzas for mah frens ​​

i wouldn't know a good date but maybe an important date like the death of a trans advocate or something isn't the
best idea? because I feel like a date like that would be better suited for an equally important day. not that a day like this wouldn't be important, I just feel like the date shouldn't have too much weight to it for a fun day like this :3
@JoscelynTransient I would say Lou Reed's birthday, OR if you want to do a weekly thing, maybe on Wednesday (silly language puns and the idea of associations of miercoles / miracles, being in the middle, etc).
@JoscelynTransient (I’m nb but having been AFAB, if I squint, this could be me) what about November 19, International Men’s Day?

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Recognize Brandon Teena, December 1993.

@liliedubh that one is very close for me. I was 6 years old and growing up just an hour or so drive from
Humboldt where he was murdered. I think seeing news about it was part of what led me to bury myself at such a young age. Might be worth considering πŸ’œ

@JoscelynTransient

Please consider. It ripped apart hubby's cousin and made them come out.

@JoscelynTransient June 16.

Lou Sullivan's birthday.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lou_Sullivan

From wiki:

"He was perhaps the first trans man to publicly identify as gay, and is largely responsible for the modern understanding of sexual orientation and gender identity as distinct, unrelated concepts.

Sullivan was a pioneer of the grassroots female-to-male (FTM) advocacy movement and was instrumental in helping individuals obtain peer-support, counseling, endocrinological services and reconstructive surgery outside of gender dysphoria clinics.

He founded FTM International, one of the first organizations specifically for FTM individuals, and his activism and community work was a significant contributor to the rapid growth of the FTM community during the late 1980s. He died of AIDS-related complications in 1991."

#transgender #transmasc
Lou Sullivan - Wikipedia

@JoscelynTransient Sullivan might be recognized within some parts of the queer community, but it's shocking how few younger queers (even FtM) know who he is. I fear it's one of those things that is slipping away with the memory of that era.

Fuck AIDS and what it did to that whole cohort of what should be our queer and trans elders right now. πŸ–€β€‹
@valentine Better I learn about him today than not at all, at least. :)
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@valentine at lot of people suggested Lou and he is definitely on with folks I thought about too. And agreed, fuck AIDS and all the brilliant and beautiful people it took from us.
@JoscelynTransient πŸ€˜β€‹πŸ€˜β€‹πŸ€˜β€‹
@JoscelynTransient I also like how it's nestled right in the middle of Pride Month.