Darac MarjalMar 21
Ricki Yasha Tarr
You're a People Pleaser, huh, well then, name 5 People who are Pleased with you.
Mar 21 at 5:27amWeb
Show threadLAURENMar 21

@RickiTarr

sounds exhausting

Show threadThe Eddie Show 📷🎧❤️Mar 21

@noondlyt @RickiTarr

and thankless.

Show threadFrankMar 21
@RickiTarr do my cats count because 2 out 3 ain't bad right
Show threadMay Likes TorontoMar 21
@RickiTarr Time to organize an orgy.
Show threadPalmAndNeedleMar 21

@mayintoronto @RickiTarr May...

you *could* have just brought doughnuts to work. That's where my mind went 

Show threadAmorpheusMar 21
@mayintoronto @RickiTarr That would be "pleased by you".
Show threadPassengerMar 21

@mayintoronto @RickiTarr

At an orgy, nervously wondering if the other people really like me or if they're just being polite.

Show threadMay Likes TorontoMar 21
@passenger @RickiTarr They don't have to like you. If everyone is pleased with pleasure together with you, then the criteria is met.
Show threadApollyonMar 21
@RickiTarr Me, Myself, I, yours truely, personally.
Show threadI'm Just Frank being FrankMar 21
@RickiTarr
Five, I can't think of one, and that's including myself.
Show threadPrinceOfDenmarkMar 21
@RickiTarr Does it count if you approve their time cards?
Show threadessjaxMar 21

@RickiTarr there's um

Um

Ummm

I'll come back to this

Show threadFlipper 🐬🏳️‍🌈Mar 21
@essjax @RickiTarr this.
Show threadAutumn MeadowMar 21
@RickiTarr
Never said I was any good at it. Lol
Show threadᴮᵉⁿ ᴿᵒʸᶜᵉVOTE IN THE PRIMARIESMar 21

@RickiTarr

people displeaser is where it's at

we all make enemies

why not lean into it

we're defined in many ways by who are enemies are. so define ourselves with a selective application of bile

Show thread"Mediocre Bunny" EvelynMar 21
@benroyce @RickiTarr
New #LifeGoal just dropped.
Show threadhashbrawnMar 21

@RickiTarr challenge accepted

1. Mick Zellerman, Calistoga High rope poopin champ 1992

I easily have 3 more

Show threadLogan Five ThousandMar 21
@RickiTarr Your mom, Gloria Estefan, Optimus Prime, my girlfriend in Canada, and me, I’m pretty pleased with myself.
Show threadRob van Kan🔻Mar 21
@RickiTarr I can name five people I pleased. It's not quite the same but they count as people pleaser points nonetheless.
Show threadCavyherdMar 21

@RickiTarr

I misread this as: "Name 5 people who you are pleased with"

Same result, sadly....

Show threadtiredMar 21
@RickiTarr my gf counts for 10 people at least
Show threadtuban_muzuruMar 21

@RickiTarr

I made five donations to the same candidate: Rebecca Cooke WI-03. She has good taste withal.

Show thread🅰🅻🅸🅲🅴 (🌈🦄)Mar 21

@RickiTarr hmm 🤔

Hey Fedi! Have I pleased you?

Yes
92.7%
No
7.3%
Poll ended at .
Show threadschratzeMar 21
@RickiTarr 
Show threadMaj1 THE Neuro Spicy SquirrelMar 21

@RickiTarr G’day Ricki 🤗🥰

Does having my toots favourited count?

Asking for a friend! 😜😂

Show threadGutterPoetryMar 21

@RickiTarr

How about 5 people I pleasured? :D

Show threadJon RoachMar 21
@RickiTarr Dave Dee, Dozy, Beaky, Mick, and now you.
Show threadgeschichtenundmeerMar 21
@RickiTarr I once asked a therapist: How can you call me a people pleaser if I do not please people? (She just gave me one of those looks people give me whenever I ask the wrong question.)
Show threadAndreas, DJ3EI, he/himMar 21

You didn't please her, then.

@geschichtenundmeer @RickiTarr

Show threadgeschichtenundmeerMar 22
@dj3ei Obviously not.
Show threadPete Alex Harris🦡🕸️🌲/∞🪐∫Mar 21
@RickiTarr
New and powerful source of anxiety dropped.
Show threadJoshua RoseMar 21

@RickiTarr My ex, my child, my gf, my nephew, his half brother, my boss, 3 directors and 4 managers at work, my Monday game (5) x2, my Tuesday game (3), my Thursday game (2) and (6) alternating groups, probably the folk I patron, EFF, 404, channel 5, hackyderm, propublica, Wikipedia, Trevor, GCFD I'm sure there are others

The number of folk (thousands) I indirectly please without them ever knowing it's happening is probably why I keep doing the work I do despite utter lack of recognition, it's certainty not the money.

I imagine if I even did one line of coke it would be different

Show threadconfused mango (human edition)Mar 21
@RickiTarr you didn't have to attack me like that QwQ /lh
Show threadJoan of Contention 😷Mar 21
@RickiTarr How dare you
Show threadJWcph, Radicalized By DecencyMar 21
@RickiTarr I never said I was a *good* people pleaser...
Show threadMFennVTMar 21
@RickiTarr Never said I was a people pleaser. People annoyer is more my line.
Show threadIanMar 21
@RickiTarr my five wives


…oh wait, not any more
Show threadMiraMar 21
@RickiTarr That’s the kicker. I never feel that anyone is ever pleased with me
Show threadDwight (DB) 🇨🇦 🍁Mar 21
@RickiTarr
1. My mom thinks I'm ok..
2.
Show threadDieoderKeineMar 21
@dabertime @RickiTarr had she tested you?! 😎
Show threadRoryMar 21

@RickiTarr Ricki: LOL.

-Have a great weekend, Ricki.

Show threadthethuthinnangMar 21

@RickiTarr

1&2 My dogs for two. Dogs are people, too.

3. My spouse, currently. 😅
4. My boss, generally. 🤷🏽‍♀️
5. You. 

Show threadGrumpyDad 🇺🇦🇵🇸Mar 21
@RickiTarr What? I don't please people.
Show threadrefraction Mar 21
@RickiTarr my girlfriend, my girlfriend's headmate, my girlfriend's other headmate...
Show threadrefraction Mar 21
@RickiTarr this is a joke, am not a people pleaser
Show threaddraeathMar 21

@RickiTarr nobody said you had to be good at it, just that you have the drive.

Now excuse me while I go weep in a dark corner...

Show threadUrsaMar 21

@RickiTarr

I think the accurate answer is zero, but only from the perspective of the people pleaser.

Show threadJohn M. GambleMar 21

@RickiTarr

Huh.

Rita
Roger
Jessica
Debi
...

Uh-oh.

So close.

Show threadGeorge SaichMar 21
@RickiTarr Living or dead?
Show threadDidthatMar 21
@RickiTarr
None
Show threadJamesMar 22

@RickiTarr

So you value material things, what is the nicest thing you own?

(Interesting exercise)