PSA: The Amazon wishlist doxing threat is much greater and more immediate than folks might realize. Attack works like this:

Stalker who wants your address opens an Amazon seller account and lists themselves as a third party seller for any item on your public wishlist. Then, they order the item from themselves as a gift for you. Bam, they have your address.

In particular, attack does not depend on an existing third party seller having poor PII handling hygiene, like the articles have implied.

The only mitigations are refraining from using public wishlists entirely (set any wishlists you may have to private) or using a PO box or reshipping service to conceal your real physical/final address.
Note that even PO boxes are not particularly safe against a dedicated stalker. They can stake out the PO for someone picking up a distinctive package once they know what PO it's at.

@dalias I live in a rural area of my state. This means that everyone living here has to get a USPS PO Box

We get the double edged sword of

...dealing with entities and online vendors that do not accept our PO Box address as valid.

...but also that we are still suceptible to the privacy issues despote that our mail doesnt come to our physical location.

@dalias Or just mail you a tracker.
@toerror @dalias this. even my stalkers are not dedicated enough for potentially multi-week stakeout, but an apple tag is super easy
@dalias Thanks for the heads up on this. Deleted all my wishlists and set the default to private.

@dalias

For those interested, USPS has an optional service for PO box holders to use the post office street address to receive packages from Amazon, UPS, FedEx, couriers, etc.

Amazon accepts a post office street address, as well as a PO box, for deliveries, as do most, if not all other carriers and couriers. The exceptions to this may be for insured, bonded, recipient-only, or other such restricted deliveries.

Some Amazon sellers do not ship to PO box addresses but the post office street address seems to be acceptable.

The post office acts as agent to sign for packages if necessary and packages are held for pickup at the post office for some number of days.

The packages are delivered to the post office and do not go to the regional sorting facility. As far as I know the USPS does not permit forwarding of packages to other addresses.

Many post office box lobbies are visible from the outside, where people can loiter and watch a box or boxes of interest for people to collect their mail. Loiterers are usually easy to spot.

And that is about as much as I know about it.

@dalias
Never make a "wishlist" public, or share it.

@raymaccarthy @dalias

That would be nice, but a lot of people are using them as teachers for classroom supplies now or charities using them to get donations of supplies they need.

@darwinwoodka @dalias
They can share what they need as an item that the donor buys? No need to share an account's "wishlist".

@raymaccarthy @darwinwoodka The idea of a wishlist and the store letting you buy items on someone else's wishlist for them is that it's privacy-preserving for the recipient. They don't have to give their address out to people they want to be able to receive gifts from. Only the store that they already shop at and that already knows their address gets to see it.

What Amazon has done is broken that promise - the whole purpose of the wishlist system - by letting third-party sellers (to whom Amazon needs to disclose the recipient address for shipping purposes) in on wishlists. Now anyone wanting to get your address just needs to sign up as a third-party seller.

@dalias id go a step further and recommend people stop making Jeff Bezos richer in general.

@dalias so to be clear, just setting the lists private is an immediate mitigation?

I haven't touched this feature since... apparently 2020 (and have only ordered one thing from Amazon since WaPo declined to endorse Harris and I dropped Prime like a hot potato). if I can take it private now and reconsider the existence of these lists entirely when I have more time to do so, that is better for me.

@draNgNon That's my understanding.
@dalias Deleting your account will 100% solve the problem.
@Ooze It will but I'm offering up missing critical information on safety not my opinions on their life choices. And "deleting your account" is one form of "refraining from using public wishlists entirely" anyway.
@dalias Thank you for sharing this.
@dalias
It appears the change will roll out in Canada in March.
I've deleted all my public wishlists.
@dalias was this not already possible? like i'm not sure how wishlists would work if the seller didn't know how to ship the product?
@azonenberg Previously you could select that you only accept gifts fulfilled by Amazon. They just took away that ability.

@dalias aha, ok.

I miss when amazon was a way to buy books directly from them and that was it...

@dalias (and I also hate the tendency of everything from walmart to digikey to turn into a "marketplace" lately. At one point you could buy oscilloscope software options on walmart's website because TEquipment had a storefront there)
@dalias just make a store to sell your products, and let me know i'm buying from you, a company i presumably trust to some extent. that's it, do one thing, do it well
@azonenberg @dalias why would they take that away 😨
@rexo @azonenberg To improve wishlist metrics and appeal to third party sellers.
@dalias every single engineer I've seen talking about this has immediately identified this attack, so it's guaranteed that this will be exploited right away if it goes ahead (and also that Amazon absolutely knows about it)
@alex They obviously knew about it since the beginning. That's why gifts were limited to fulfilled-by-Amazon. Then some piece of shit manager with no understanding of safety wanted to make the sketchy marketplace more lucrative to sellers to compete in race to bottom.
@dalias exactly. They could also have trivially made wishlists with that setting private, which would at least limit the immediate harm, but that doesn't goose the wishlist metrics

@dalias I'm hoping we can use this opportunity to get people off of Amazon.

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@dalias A couple of guys I trained with in martial arts, are in a paramilitary group, and are now planning a para-doxing welcoming committee.
@dalias holy shit, wow. I appreciate that heads up. Thank you.
@dalias With all of the current digital surveillance we are subjected to, that should not have been possible
@dalias wait, does this coincide with the Mail I got from Amazon about third party sellers being allowed. Guess I'll delete my wishlist now. Haven't used it in years anyway 😬😬
@dalias Again I Think logistic companies coming as intermediaries can serve to shield our Addresses since only their addresses will be given
@SonLite @dalias if they hide an AirTag inside the box it will track the whole route. They just need the places it stopped, one of them will be where you opened the box and then threw it away. It might not be where you live but it’s probably where you’re sleeping.
@passwordsarehard4 @SonLite @dalias Airtags can be reprogrammed if they were found in a box (I don't just throw away boxes without checking for tech or magnets).

@dalias I would have expected that wish listing something would mark that exact product from that exact seller as the thing you want. Like... I want this known authentic doodad from this known reputable seller.

Is that not the case?

@Ragashingo @dalias that's what they're taking away, as I understand it. So I think it's the case _now_, it will shortly _not_ be the case.

So if you're lucky, you can now get the same thing from a third-party seller. If you're mid-lucky, you can get something passing itself off as the same listing from a third-party scammer. If you're unlucky, your address gets leaked to a third-party stalker.

Clearly I wasn't the only person who read that mail this morning and thought "oh no".

@_calmdowndear @Ragashingo Amazon should have been stopped in their tracks when they first allowed third parties to link their counterfeit items as just being a different seller for the same genuine item, rather than a separate product listing.

The whole late-capitalist fascist hell we're in is a consequence of letting companies do things that were long-illegal and would have been prosecuted as racketeering if not for "with computers" tacked on to the business plan.

@Ragashingo @dalias Amazon puts all the items they consider similar in the same bins, and ships similar items that are near you, so even if you order from a specific seller, you might end up with a counterfeit from a completely different vendor.

That's why it's also extremely dangerous to order products that can cause a health risk (like adult toys) on there, as counterfeits are commonplace.

@SamantazFox @dalias Oh, sure! I've had the counterfeit thing happen. Ordered 3 hand crank flashlight/radios, and got 3 slightly different variations that didn't fully match the description. (Different types of USB ports, for instance)

I don't particularly trust Amazon to ship me what I order, I just think it sounds... incorrect... that someone can specifically create a new 3rd party seller then order you something off your wishlist to that new seller to get your address.

@dalias Thanks for this. Does this apply to Audible too?

@toxy @dalias

I just looked at my Audible wish list and couldn't find any private/public status of the list anywhere. Nor could I find any way to delete the list itself, so I just settled for deleting all the items in the list.

@dalias fixed and told the family

@dalias
Come on guys, we sit on mastodon lamenting the sorry state of the world, and then everyone signs into an amazon account??? If our actions are to give money to an organization that aggressively works to destroy the middle class and liberal democracies world wide, then our words are meaningless... :-/

Quoting The Disposable Heroes of Hip-Hopricy: hypocrisy is the greatest luxury....

@TrimTab We're not "lamenting" it. We're doing safety outreach to get information to people who might suffer real harms if they don't know about it.

@TrimTab @dalias The middle-class ableism is strong with this one. Amazon is evil, but often the only way for disabled people or people in rural areas to get affordable items without leaving the house.

Going out to a store is a luxury for those with the time and physical ability.

Postage is a disability tax.

And an Amazon wishlist has for a long time been the easiest way for people to buy things for others without them giving out their address. It is a form of mutual aid. It is not our>

@TrimTab @dalias >fault that Amazon has become a behemoth, eating up more ethical competition.

Campaign for regulations instead of blaming the most vulnerable members of society for using what little tools they have to live.

@Rhube @dalias Good points. If the usa has gone so far that a segment of the populous has no option than amazon, than yeah, ,that's tragic and i don't blame the amazon user. I had no idea the US was THAT eff'd... Or that everyone on mastodon was disabled and economically thus challenged.

I take back what i said.

@dalias ah that was the mail Amazon sent. They have sent and explained that in a mail…
@rugk They didn't explain that "third-party sellers" means "anyone who signs up for a seller account, possibly the same person as the 'buyer' who just wants to get your address".
@dalias I don’t understand why anyone would ever want a public wishlist, even disregarding stalkers and the like. Seriously, how is it of public interest that you’d like a new bathrobe?
@jpkolsen It's a way for fans to compensate people whose work they appreciate who can't easily take payment. AIUI one big place this comes up, and where doxing is a huge threat, is sex work. But really for anyone doing things where there's a parasocial relationship with an audience the same applies.