I'm trying not to post "surprised pikachu face" memes about all of the people discovering that tiktok is now censoring coverage of protests, and mentions of Epstein.

And I'm watching as everyone tramples over to Yet Another Corporate Platform where the same thing will happen in a few dozen months.

Ya'll need to get out for real.

Or at least have a backup that doesn't run on OPP (Other People's Platforms)

**be nice**
**teach don't yell**

**girl, you can't even get off of youTube, don't be so imperious**

... but please, why can't anyone spot the pattern?

@futurebird LOL I don't think that's the meaning of "OPP" in the song. 😂

@ai6yr

"It's O.P.P. time, other people's, but you get it
There's no room for relationship, there's just room to hit it
How many brothers out there know just what I'm gettin' at?
Who thinks it's wrong 'cause I'm splittin' and co-hittin' that?
Well if you do, that's O.P.P and you're not down with it
But if you don't, here's your membership"

It's totally about platforms.

@futurebird 🎵 Down with OPP! You don’t own me! 🎵
@ai6yr @futurebird DONT RUN APPS THERE EITHER  

@ai6yr @futurebird

Of course it doesn't. As my friend from Toronto hipped me, "O.P.P." stands for "Ontario Provincial Police".

(He laughed every time that song came on.)

I just started singing it watching the news tonight when they interviewed an OPP officer.
My hubby gave me serious side eye. Silly man chose this path, now he's stuck with my giggling a**

@Just_Jen

Best thing I've heard today 😆

@futurebird I tell people to use loops.video
@futurebird Kinda suprised someone in the Fediverse doesn't have a surprised pikachu face bot.

@futurebird

It’s sadly predictable. Many people are so focused on being wherever they perceive everyone else is, that they don’t do any deep thinking about what pitfalls may exist in that location. Follow the money, ownership, and political influence, people. Sheesh! 🤦‍♀️

(I’m looking at YOU, Government of Canada…why are you still primarily posting on X?)

@KimberlyN

"Many people are so focused on being wherever they perceive everyone one else is"

To be fair ... this is part of the whole point of social media. To... be where the action is and all the people...?

I don't know how to break the cycle.

We've put some cracks in it though. That's something.

@futurebird

Thing is, if someone has a large audience, and they tell their followers they’re going somewhere else…many will, um, follow them. I think there’s a lot of SM paralysis among people who could lead their audience to better environments.

Years ago, we decided to xeriscape (low water, native plant gardens) our front yard. We tore up our lawn and replaced with native plants. Tried to get next door neighbours do the same, but they were uncomfortable because “no one else is doing it.” 🤷‍♀️

@futurebird @KimberlyN dual posting is the solution, and using multiple services and opening the freer one first is my habit
Not just X. Our local City and Regional District as well as community information groups are all on FB.
Only FB.
Everything from emergency services for wildfires to lost pets.
I'd love to disconnect from it, but I also want to hear from neighborhood watch and parade photos. ((Sigh))
@futurebird oh no - it's almost as if thousands didn't predict this well in advance....
Gaza Notifications (@[email protected])

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Mastodon

@Miro_Collas

It has "investors"

@futurebird Well, all businesses do. Some might be the "right" type of investors.

Anyway, just a thought

@futurebird

From people I’ve talked to not on the Fediverse, the few who do try it out say it feels like a huge step backwards in terms of tech.

It’s like moving back to the era of Instant Messengers where you have to make effort to find the people you want to add to your friends list.

It’s like putting together an old-school paper-based address book for friends and family or other people you want to connect with.

Maybe older folks would understand the paradigm shifts needed to move to decentralized social media, but for anyone not familiar with how that all worked, it’s way too much effort for minimal gain since none of their social circles are moving off en mass to decentralized platforms.

Online communications used to be an extension of real-world relationships where you could continue in-person conversations after going home. Now, the platforms are optimized to try to completely supplant any need for the in-person aspect of communication and community. Since the platform becomes critical to maintaining relationships with friends and acquaintances, leaving those platforms feels like abandoning friends for little perceived benefit.

Just some opinions I’ve collected over the years from others.
@dannekrose @futurebird a big part of it is that people forgot the simplicity of the #hashtag its extremely important for mastodon as picking tags you would like to #follow is the main old-school replacement for the #algorithm. #FediTips

@dannekrose @futurebird that feels like a really good assessment of Mastodon. To me this is a feature, not a bug:

Having to choose actively with whom I interact is what makes me happy in the long run.

If everything is spoon fed to me, I see two main downsides:

- my brain shuts down and stops thinking
- another entity gets control of my time

This other entity has one goal: make money. And I don't want somebody else making money off of my time.

@dannekrose @futurebird

Some folks are trying to work on that. The problem is that there has been a conflation between ‘you control what is in your feed’ and ‘you don’t see anything that you didn’t put in your feed’.

My primary objection to platforms like Facebook and Twitter is that they are psychological profiling tools that sell ads / propaganda and masquerade as communication tools. Federation kind-of helps that, but Google showed with GMail that it’s possible to capture a sufficiently large chunk of a communication graph that you can still build these things. The main benefit of the Fediverse in that respect is breaking the monopoly: it’s as easy for Google or Facebook to crawl the Fediverse and build profile information as it is for anyone else, but they can’t augment it with private message content.

The problem that Mastodon and friends try to address is the lack of agency of users. Twitter turned the web back into TV: you could change channels, but they still controlled the content that you saw. To address this, they started at the exact opposite end: you see posts from people and hashtags you follow, but absolutely nothing else. The choices are all digital: follow or block people / hashtags.

In reality, people want much more analogue controls. Show me more cats (but not every post about cats). Tune down the US Politics (but a few posts a day is okay). Show me a few random posts that are popular.

Completely removing a recommendation algorithm gave a nice clean slate to start from, but that’s all. Recommendation algorithms are useful. The problem with other platforms is not that they have recommendation algorithms, it’s that their algorithms are opaque and under someone else’s control. The goal for people working on such things here is that the recommendation algorithm must be completely under the user’s control and must be able to answer, for any post that they see, why they see it. Oh, and it must actually be useful. It’s coming, but building it is hard!

@futurebird it's time to stop investing in platforms that don't love you back

@futurebird

I've been out of TikTok for a while. Where are they trampling to?

Out of curiosity. I don't plan to visit whatever corporate platform.

@springdiesel

"UpScrolled"

Which sounds like a better place than twitter, but it's not open, someone else could be in charge later... same old same old.

@futurebird

I'm kind of grateful it's not YouTube Shorts.

@springdiesel

An upside of youTube is it can be embedded in other sites. While tiktok and most new platforms can't they want to lock the users in.

I do expect youTube to try to eliminate this someday, but because they are old their algorithm is much less influential.

@futurebird will we be adopting insider code words as in China? A name for Minneapolis killings like there is for Tiananmen Square massacre?

@futurebird I've gone back to Facebook several times to urge people to at least open a backup account on Mastodon. Not a single one has done it so far. I can't even get my son to join, he's on Reddit and Bluesky!

I really wish I knew some local people who were on Mastodon...

I've been trying to trek friends about Open Vibe. It's easy to open Threads on it (which they automatically have with FB) and prompts creating Nostr, Mastadon and Bluesky all in one. It solves the "too many different ones" argument for trying to change platforms.
@futurebird > Or at least have a backup that doesn't run on OPP (Other People's Platforms)
Has anything replaced scuttlebutt yet or has it been revived?

I've been focused on other things for a little while so I'm not as up to date as I'd wish, but last I checked distributed alternatives were painfully scarce (Fedi is subject to all the usual server-centric issues and self-hosting fedi on the clearnet has the usual privilege/structural issues).

@futurebird personally I’m finding hilarious that one of the reasons to force a sale was because of “Chinese ownership/censorship” and the outcome is a thousand times worse.

Btw- Rednote/小红书 is still going strong…

@futurebird Most folks don't make rational decisions, they just behave however others who are like them behave. So it's difficult for them to follow an argument if it suggests all those others are making bad decisions. Because that would mean they have to think for themselves, which is hard work.

Also, most of these folks who can only follow the crowd, haven't even heard of the fediverse! It simply hasn't attracted enough media attention to penetrate their information spaces.

@FreakyFwoof @futurebird I'm glad I never used TickTock. Damn thing's a waste of time. And not very accessible to boot.
I never had a TikTok account
I'm waiting for Loops.
@futurebird This is why Mastodon is grate! I could have a instance... I have two, open and available to whoever wishes to use, invite based, but still there. Others are there to use, grate clients exist, and quite fun! :)

@futurebird

Knowing about a problem and doing something about it are two different things when people are anxious.

Someone pointed out that people often don't change their approach until the pain of doing nothing (or going back to something familiar) is greater than their fear of change.