@emily If everything else fails, you can always use an ESP32 (or multiple) with a bunch of CT clamps, no? Also, Shelly has the Shelly EM which does exactly that.
Or just one or two clamps (not sure how many live wires come in on NA installs), reading off the input wires, and temporarily shutting of each breaker to see where the biggest constant draws come from.
That being said, biggest vampire power drains are usually things like old HVAC equipment in need of cleaning or maintenance, laser printers, AV equipment, game consoles, lights in places you seldom go left on, and also malfunctioning freezers and fridges (especially if their seals are old).
Hope you find the culprit(s). I'd be interested to know the solution you come up with, and what the culprits are, BTW, this kind of investigation always interests me.
Good luck!