I wish more masc folk would send varied cheeky flirty photos instead of just going straight to the junk. Send me pics of your hand roaming up your shirt, the trail of hairs leading down from your belly button, your thighs, the curve of your ass, your collarbones, the back of your neck - hell, your hands working, your fingers tracing things, your forearms - just tease me with your body, you've got a whole bunch of it to play with!
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I recommend watching Troy Sivan for inspiration. He seems to have masc/NB flirty energy in his music videos. He's cishet straight but appears quite gender fluid in the videos.
Though I started with 'One of Your Girls' where he plays a very convincing sexy woman and got into his music from there. You may like the male models too. 
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Oh that's cool.
I was confused after an article I read where I thought he was straight. Troy's singing about and kissing up guys in the videos.
He drags up as a hot woman though, which sucked me in to start with.
His videos seem to cover all genders and sexualities. Great community representation!
Here's another troy Sivan video I've had on repeat - Got Me Started
Excellent if you feel like dancing
One of the best flirt pics I've ever gotten was just his hand from the wrist down clutching at a duvet cover and it was like
@welshpixie it's probably cis thing. I frequent a forum with lots of gays and
- their names are almost always variation of male<height>-<weight>-<length of their member>-top/bottom-<location>
- their photos are 99.9% about their junk and asses.
On the other hand, trans people there post sometimes extremely good photos 😳
@welshpixie We call it sea forecast, because that's how it sounds like xD
"That and that place, temperature, visibility and sea state"
My first instinct is that it's because we are not taught that we're beautiful, and so think that all we have going for us is our junk. Being queer offsets this because we see other men and non-junk attributes as attractive, so we can see that in ourselves as well.
This is just thinking out loud and reflecting on my relationship with myself and flirting.
@welshpixie Yeah exactly, we're taught to be tough, strong, and that we make ourselves desirable by playing capitalism as well as possible.
And even when we get to the realisation that there's more than just playing capitalism, those other things still live in our head and are hard to evict.
It's an ongoing process, and what's even more depressing is knowing that so many men struggle with this, but the most well known people addressing this are the ones pushing men even more into toxic masculinity for their own profit.
Yeah, my mental health definitely improved when I made fedi my only social media network.
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