CalligrafaeJun 7, 2024

I wish more masc folk would send varied cheeky flirty photos instead of just going straight to the junk. Send me pics of your hand roaming up your shirt, the trail of hairs leading down from your belly button, your thighs, the curve of your ass, your collarbones, the back of your neck - hell, your hands working, your fingers tracing things, your forearms - just tease me with your body, you've got a whole bunch of it to play with!

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Show threadCalligrafaeJun 7, 2024
Is this maybe a cis/het male thing? Alex sends fantastic flirty pics and he's queer. Hmmm.
Show threadInterpipes đź’™Jun 7, 2024
@welshpixie @girlonthenet imo we’re not generally socialised to believe that we are “attractive”/“alluring” or that “teasing” is something men should do so the advice I can offer as a cishet man who never had good self image for the best part of 30y but was effectively encouraged into it is asking for specifics and being encouraging so that they learn the lesson that other parts of them are attractive and they think about their bodies differently
Show threadInterpipes đź’™Jun 7, 2024
@welshpixie @girlonthenet falling into d/s as I did worked very well for me on that front as well because I learned very quickly about exploiting the response I got with denial/teasing building that deep frisson of excitement, so that also was a big part of the lightbulb moment in terms of feeling/thinking about “desirable in an alternative way”.
Show threadCalligrafae
@interpipes @girlonthenet ooh yeah, for sure!
Jun 7, 2024 at 8:52amWeb