"We never saw any of this ADHD or autism stuff when I was young!"

You never saw any photos of the surface of Mars back then either, but I'm pretty sure it was still there the whole time

You know a post is doing well when you start getting replies from people earnestly explaining your own point to you, as if you didn't grasp it

@Garwboy Can I just say how incredibly difficult it is to resist explaining the point of this post to you?

Thanks a lot, Godel.

@Garwboy @lisamelton Itโ€™s the Death of the Author.
@Garwboy So what youโ€™re saying is that as your post gets more popular, people explain the post to you? (/s)

@Garwboy Mars is *checks notes* a liberal hoax!

/s

@farcaller @Garwboy
The Red Planet is Cultural Marxism!
@TonyJWells @farcaller @Garwboy "if on the red planet they're all socialist... who are they stealing from?" [quote]

@marcorobotics @TonyJWells @Garwboy there are two primary resources on Mars: water tankies and oxygen tankies. And the red faction always has the volition for control.

Whoops, wrong franchise. Can we make a spin-off about SCP now?

@marcorobotics @farcaller @Garwboy

Mostly the Outer Planets Alliance.

@TonyJWells @marcorobotics @Garwboy this. This is why we can't have nice things. Humans find a new shiny toy and it ends up with another Reality Dysfunction.
@farcaller @Garwboy Damn commies! /s
@diaeter @farcaller @Garwboy Wait. Is that why it's called the Red Planet?
It's all beginning to make sense now!
@carlafonseca Oh my goodness - who's behind that again? Liberal satanic elite, reptiloids or the kchrrr-jews?
@farcaller @Garwboy No you're confusing that with the Moon landing which was done on a Hollywood sound stage. Elon Musk is a great man and he would never lie about taking us to Mars.

@Garwboy I'm glad it is more 'common' now, despite meeting the occasional neuro-typical person saying it's all a trend.

I was finally diagnosed last year and my daughter this year. My son will be soon too and at least they can grow up in a world less alien and with a better understanding.

Perhaps even a little more compassion and empathy.

#autism #actuallyautistic

@Garwboy People just weren't cognizant of this stuff when I was a kid. Anyone aware of the telltale traits today can read my old report cards and notice some blatantly obvious patterns reported in my behavior.

I didn't suddenly become autistic when I was finally diagnosed at 43. ๐Ÿ™„

@Garwboy @analogfusion Exactly. Just a lot more kids being punished and variously emotionally traumatised for things they couldnโ€™t change.
@analogfusion @Garwboy Unfortunately some of them are not today either. I call it "good old days syndrome", you know, angry nostalgy for times when everything was cheaper, safer, more easy and healthy and colourful, so why not have it today! Just ignore all that science sh*t and new dangerous ideas! Easy as that!
@Garwboy ADD & Autism were added to the DSM (III) in 1980 & neither were commonly diagnosed until the late 80s. So they're right...
@scottgal @Garwboy improvements in diagnosis capability don't change the prevalence though.
@mawhrin @Garwboy They do if the diagnosis didn't exist before. Autism for example was diagnosed as 'childhood psychosis / shizoid disorder' and the children often locked away for life https://blogs.uoregon.edu/autismhistoryproject/topics/childhood-psychosis-or-schizophrenia/#:~:text=Before%20autism%20existed%20as%20a,in%20life%20was%20notoriously%20difficult.
Childhood Psychosis or Schizophrenia โ€“ The Autism History Project

@scottgal @Garwboy Autism became tied to a lot more services and support than the older classifications of developmental delay or 5th percentile IQ. Autism diagnostic criteria, for the purposes of child services, are sufficiently broad that every parent, physician, and teacher of a cognitively disabled child is going to assign that label and get those services. We certainly did for our oldest.

@scottgal @Garwboy

ADHD was called by other names long before that. The behaviors were recognized as being similar to those exhibited by people with frontal lobe injuries.

@Garwboy Even the doctors cooperate very poorly to diagnose adult people. My wife has had quite the journey to get #ADHD diagnose and any medical treatment. Of course, nobody talked about it in the 80s when she was young. She was just "very distracted" and "all over the place." And if the system helps her, it also helps me.

@Garwboy

Much of this is due to better diagnostic tests and increased awareness, aka, we're smarter now.

Some is also due to conformity pressures created by our culture.

At least in the early 90's, there was also a problem with overdiagnosing kids w/ ADHD.

@Garwboy by the same authors of โ€œthe waters are turning the frogs gayโ€ and โ€œkids nowadaysโ€ฆ (insert any backwards bullcrap)โ€

@Garwboy
A decade ago, maybe more, I recall my 70-something dad musing about his brother-in-law David, who was such an "odd duck" with difficulty fitting in.

"You know... the way they describe Autism... that matches Uncle David to a tee. Right down to the last detail."

He was one of my favorite uncles. Funny as hell. Often without trying. Whenever he was in town, Ma would send us to #HarMarMall to just kick around all day, surely 'cuz he drove her nuts.

@Garwboy

I was 12 when the Viking I landed on Mars. I collected all of the newspaper clippings and was super excited to see the first images from the surface of Mars. โค๏ธ

@Garwboy people used to hide any forms of neurodivergent behavior because they viewed it as a personal moral failing.

call it how it really is. we as a society used to act like we didn't exist.

@pinecones_sx @Garwboy Add to this an hyper competitive and fast moving modern world where having attention issues doesn't fit the corporate view that employees should be 100% productive 8 hours a day

@aris @Garwboy imo no one should be expected to give 100% 8 hours a day.

it's quite frankly insane that we still operate like that as a society.

@Garwboy

It's especially important to remember how new these diagnoses are.

The first person to be diagnosed with Autism died just a few weeks ago!

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/the-first-person-to-be-diagnosed-with-autism-has-died-at-89/

And it wasn't until 1968 that ADHD was added to the DSM.

Even after something is added to the DSM, it can take time for that classification to gain awareness and acceptance.

I was diagnosed with ADHD in 1984, and I remember even as a kid people how much "skepticism" it was met with.

The First Person to Be Diagnosed with Autism Has Died at 89

A 1943 paper highlighted โ€œDonald T.โ€ as โ€œCase 1โ€ of 11 children with โ€œautistic disturbances of affective contactโ€

Scientific American

@serge @Garwboy early concepts of ADHD go back a century (they called it "Acute brain dysfunction" - amirite?)

and in another century I *guarantee* you they won't be talking about it (or most likely by then, "them") the way they do now

shouldn't stop ADHD people from getting treatment though

@Garwboy A great answer :-)

More on the practical side, I am reading Love and Autism by Kay Kerr.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/75558872-love-autism

A great book by an autistic person, I think. It is a very good read for everyone. We all meet, one way or the other, people with autism, and having a better grasp what makes them tick is good for all of us when we meet.

Love & Autism

'Love has always intrigued me, in part because I have cโ€ฆ

Goodreads
@Garwboy @Verso Reminds me of when we say things like, โ€œWe never wore helmets riding bikes when I was a kid, and Iโ€™m just fine!โ€ Well, sweety, little Billy isnโ€™t here to tell that little anecdote, is he?
@Garwboy oh no.... now they have to start a whole #MarsHoax agenda ๐Ÿ˜ซ
@Garwboy In biblical times, I bet some autistic people were considered demon-possessed.

@Garwboy oh my gosh yes. It's as if our existence is a static state at all times. We are learning so much about the natural world. We act as if we have it all figured out. Not even remotely.

Being an adult only recently diagnoses with ADHD, my parents never noticed even though every person they knew who saw me asked if I had ADHD. People are strange sometimes.

@Garwboy Spot on! Asperger's wasn't even a thing yet when I was at school. No wonder it wasn't diagnosed. Of course the name has fallen out of favour now, and rightly, in my view. I'm just "on the spectrum".

@Garwboy

And all of us who *should* have been diagnosed back then in the "good old days" roll their eyes.

@Garwboy ... it's because we were told to stop doing whatever we were doing...
@Garwboy in the old days they beat kids that didnโ€™t conform to their idea of behavior. Being frightened into quiet submission was the norm.
@Garwboy JFTR: First photo from the surface dated back from 1976 (Viking probes), so you are adressing only 60+ people?

@Garwboy

15 years or so ago I could quite often be heard to proclaim shit like "its just bad parenting!" or "its a con by big pharma" blah blah blah. God I would go back and slap myself if I could. I now have a diagnosis myself (diag at 42, now 48) and 2 autistic children (one adult, one teen). My grandson also being referred.

I wish it didnt take personal experience to open my eyes. Sadly, many people still touting that BS who never will.

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So Smug ๐Ÿ’ฏ ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ
Yet so ๐Ÿฆ†ing True ๐Ÿ‘
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@Garwboy pix or it didn't happen