"We never saw any of this ADHD or autism stuff when I was young!"
You never saw any photos of the surface of Mars back then either, but I'm pretty sure it was still there the whole time
"We never saw any of this ADHD or autism stuff when I was young!"
You never saw any photos of the surface of Mars back then either, but I'm pretty sure it was still there the whole time
@Garwboy Can I just say how incredibly difficult it is to resist explaining the point of this post to you?
Thanks a lot, Godel.
@Garwboy Mars is *checks notes* a liberal hoax!
/s
@marcorobotics @TonyJWells @Garwboy there are two primary resources on Mars: water tankies and oxygen tankies. And the red faction always has the volition for control.
Whoops, wrong franchise. Can we make a spin-off about SCP now?
@marcorobotics @farcaller @Garwboy
Mostly the Outer Planets Alliance.
@[email protected] "FUN" FACT: the first person diagnosed with autism died less than a month ago
@Garwboy I'm glad it is more 'common' now, despite meeting the occasional neuro-typical person saying it's all a trend.
I was finally diagnosed last year and my daughter this year. My son will be soon too and at least they can grow up in a world less alien and with a better understanding.
Perhaps even a little more compassion and empathy.
@Garwboy People just weren't cognizant of this stuff when I was a kid. Anyone aware of the telltale traits today can read my old report cards and notice some blatantly obvious patterns reported in my behavior.
I didn't suddenly become autistic when I was finally diagnosed at 43. ๐
Much of this is due to better diagnostic tests and increased awareness, aka, we're smarter now.
Some is also due to conformity pressures created by our culture.
At least in the early 90's, there was also a problem with overdiagnosing kids w/ ADHD.
@Garwboy
A decade ago, maybe more, I recall my 70-something dad musing about his brother-in-law David, who was such an "odd duck" with difficulty fitting in.
"You know... the way they describe Autism... that matches Uncle David to a tee. Right down to the last detail."
He was one of my favorite uncles. Funny as hell. Often without trying. Whenever he was in town, Ma would send us to #HarMarMall to just kick around all day, surely 'cuz he drove her nuts.
I was 12 when the Viking I landed on Mars. I collected all of the newspaper clippings and was super excited to see the first images from the surface of Mars. โค๏ธ
@Garwboy people used to hide any forms of neurodivergent behavior because they viewed it as a personal moral failing.
call it how it really is. we as a society used to act like we didn't exist.
It's especially important to remember how new these diagnoses are.
The first person to be diagnosed with Autism died just a few weeks ago!
And it wasn't until 1968 that ADHD was added to the DSM.
Even after something is added to the DSM, it can take time for that classification to gain awareness and acceptance.
I was diagnosed with ADHD in 1984, and I remember even as a kid people how much "skepticism" it was met with.
@Garwboy A great answer :-)
More on the practical side, I am reading Love and Autism by Kay Kerr.
https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/75558872-love-autism
A great book by an autistic person, I think. It is a very good read for everyone. We all meet, one way or the other, people with autism, and having a better grasp what makes them tick is good for all of us when we meet.
@Garwboy oh my gosh yes. It's as if our existence is a static state at all times. We are learning so much about the natural world. We act as if we have it all figured out. Not even remotely.
Being an adult only recently diagnoses with ADHD, my parents never noticed even though every person they knew who saw me asked if I had ADHD. People are strange sometimes.
And all of us who *should* have been diagnosed back then in the "good old days" roll their eyes.
15 years or so ago I could quite often be heard to proclaim shit like "its just bad parenting!" or "its a con by big pharma" blah blah blah. God I would go back and slap myself if I could. I now have a diagnosis myself (diag at 42, now 48) and 2 autistic children (one adult, one teen). My grandson also being referred.
I wish it didnt take personal experience to open my eyes. Sadly, many people still touting that BS who never will.