I grew up in an observant (devout?) Muslim household. When I questioned my faith, my folks didn't ban books. They encouraged me to read books by Muslims AND non-Muslims—Christian, Jewish, atheist, or other. It was life changing. And it's a message I'm passing on to my children now, and one I hope they pass to their children when the time comes.

Parents: Trust your kids. Ban ignorance—not books.

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I grew up in a fundamentalist Christian home. Only true Christians and Christian beliefs kept you from sliding into hell and family ostracization. It was this very ultimatum, that made me search elsewhere.
@QasimRashid Yes! I had classes in my catholic private school where we brought in leaders from the local synagogue, mosque, and others. We were able to have open discussions about similarities, misconceptions, histories, & differences. It was wonderful. We also (even a catholic school) were encouraged to read texts from other religions. It was such a great life lesson.
@AGreve @QasimRashid Same for me, but at a RC university. Made for a wonderful and enlightening experience!
@QasimRashid Every year, my husband, his school staff, and Interfaith Ministries conduct senior student visits to various houses of faith, including a Hare Krishna Dam, mosques, a Sikh temple, a Hindu mandir, and an African American Baptist church. The students learn so much in this annual program and they absolutely love it.
@SharonGibson3 @QasimRashid They should talk to some humanists too!
@sharpblue @QasimRashid According to humanistsinternational.org, there aren't any humanist organizations in our area, but I will certainly share that possibility with my husband.
@sharpblue @QasimRashid I talked to Michael about this. He said that the closest the program has with regard to humanism, it's the Bahais. However, if there were a humanist organization to be found in Houston, he'd certainly get in contact with it. 😀
@QasimRashid Religion is ignorance. It requires belief over reality.
@POSUTtRUmp funny that’s how I feel about atheism. But I hope we both agree that people should be allowed to believe or not believe without discrimination or oppression, and religion and state should remain separate.
@QasimRashid @POSUTtRUmp except for the fact that religions are the basis for denying rights to vast swaths of populations that don’t conform to said religious beliefs. Look at Iran, do you support the murder of women that don’t want to cover their hair? Religion is the worlds worst WMD. It hurts more than it helps.

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The word 'believe' is the key.

There is absolutely no problem at all in someone wanting to 'believe' something. The problems arise because people who 'believe' are so often manipulated by those who led them to 'believe'.

Sadly, this has been the cause of massive human suffering, violence, persecution and hate for thousands of years.

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It's not like atheism cannot become a religion.

It's the dogma, the blind belief that must not be disputed that makes a religion, not that what is believed.

Or money. There is no value in money other than the faith the people have in it.

I am all for divorce of state from religion. All of it, not just the named and numbered historical ones.

@QasimRashid I grew up in a liberal Christian home- same experience- parents wanted me to explore and were accepting when I moved away from religion.
@QasimRashid And government fails at this beautiful parenting approach too frequently.
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Catholic family, parents did same. This Is The Way.

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A HS student to TX school board:

“I’m not going to sit here and talk about the slippery slope that book banning leads to because I learned from a book, that I checked out from my school’s library, that I don’t need to resort to logical fallacy to make a point. I’m simply going to say that no government – and public school is an extension of government – has ever banned books, and banned information from its public, and been remembered in history as the good guys.”

@QasimRashid in your opinion, have religions been as helpful towards the human race, as they have been destructive?
@QasimRashid maybe I should rephrase… modern day killings in the name of any religion, make nuclear weapons look like nerf darts. When can we move on from religions as a basis for law or discourse, and recognize religions are all great from an enriching historic culture perspective, but complete bullshit on face value. Religions are also responsible for incredible amounts of undeserved suffering and repression of women, gays, and anyone in between. Religions were an innovation for a ruling class and culture bestowed on people to rule a subservient class before modern tech. How many leaders of any overtly religious country actually follow the religious practices? It’s all bullshit.

@QasimRashid I grew up in a Catholic household. In the first couple of grades, we actually said the Our Father/Lord's Prayer in public school in the morning. But we said the—gasp!—Protestant verison. For those of you not in the know, the Catholic version ends with “…deliver us from evil. Amen.” The Protestant version continues with “For thine is the…”. I asked my mom what do to, worried about being "wrong”. She said, “just don't say that part".

Imagine that being ok today.

@QasimRashid my evangelical parents were afraid that some accepted scientific theories were contradictory to thier absolute interpretation of the Bible. in truth science nor logic support a book written 2-3 thousand years ago. It’s the fear that beliefs are questioned with knowledge. Any absolute belief system should be questioned so yes books, science education do bring in doubt and questions. It’s whether you belief questions are more dangerous than searching for truth
@QasimRashid interesting because it’s books that freed me from religion.
@QasimRashid I think I lucked out when it came to parents as well. We had plenty of books around (even when we couldn't afford them), and news magazines from multiple perspectives. I know my mom is still not thrilled with me being an atheist, but she always encouraged me to read - and I did read books from all the major religions. My wife and I have done the same with our kids (now basically grown adults). We end up disagreeing a bit, but at least it's well-thought-out disagreements.
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This makes me wonder, at the end, did you hold on to your faith?
@gergely strengthened it based on experiential understanding, deeper scrutiny, and intense study.

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The best way to encourage dissent is attempting control. Humans crave independence and voice.

Time and again great minds have been fueled by adversity. Every book banning or burning adds to the list of must-read literature.

The printing press changed humanity. The Catholic Church immediately created banned lists as soon as printing was mechanized. Now social sites have content filters. We will see what voices rise.

@QasimRashid I think this might be the first time I boosted something on Mastodon.
@stoicmike Thank you. Grateful for your support. ❤️✊🏽
@QasimRashid My parents were the same way. I did the same with my children.

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It strikes me the that those who would to the banning are fearful of their worldview being shaken and dissent/opposition from their kids.

They are all in on propelling and insulating.

@QasimRashid I grew up in a culturally Muslim household — my parents did not pray at home or visit the mosque — but they encouraged me to read, widely.

Today, my wife is #christian & I am deepening my understanding of #Islam through #reading Sufi #poetry.

#Books have saved my sanity & given me life 🙏🏼✨

Here’s an #introduction to my #writing, that I hope interests:

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@EgyptianAphorist that’s beautiful

@QasimRashid Bless you, brother 🙏🏼✨ Wishing you continued success & if you like, happy to share ecopies of my #books with you: Desert Songs & Learning to Pray:

https://therumpus.net/2022/05/11/teaching-the-ineffable-learning-to-pray-by-yahia-lababidi/ @bookstodon #Monday

Teaching The Ineffable: Learning To Pray By Yahia Lababidi - The Rumpus.net

@QasimRashid I am amazed to see the lack of outrage from our white allies. They have so much power to end this, but I am unsure when we will see them use their power to stop Ron DeSantis.

@QasimRashid Some of the most informed, polite, and kind people I've known grew up in households similar to yours.

Muslim, Catholic, Atheist - we all carry our believes in our core. Our belief happens from there - and from there it needs to be cultivated and taught to be accepting and curious and seek out beauty and love. Good philosophies do exactly that.

I'm so glad you are able to see the importance of that messaging for yourself and your children. Live your life in peace, friend.

@QasimRashid every religion has its extremists-has little to do with the teachings, imo
@QasimRashid You had great parents. I hope we can make their voice louder than the of the others who act out of fear instead of love.
@QasimRashid I gave up our family religion, as well as all religions AFTER reading numerous bibles and the #quran

@QasimRashid same goes with everything.

Let children discover themselves and their place in the world.

I.e. one cannot make a child cis or hetero, but one can make said child welcomed and loved or suffering from being drowned in [self-]hate...

Questioning oneself isn't bad, but discouraging or denying the results is!

@QasimRashid My wife and I grew up in strict Baptist homes. My wife later converted to Catholicism, I finally owned up to my lifelong atheism. We sent our kids to Bible study with their fundamentalist family members, and daily to strict Catholic schools. I didn't want them to consider any of these communities, including the non-believers, as "other". They grew into their own consciences, and no matter how much they reject much of the doctrine they were exposed to, I think they do understand it.
@QasimRashid My parents were the same. And ironically, when a child knows his parents trust him to make wise decisions, that child is more likely to see his parents as allies to whom he can turn for advice.