@emilymbender
That was a good reminder of how toxic my last job was. I was being encouraged to make decisions without enough info, for a group of people who had far more experience than I did. That ran very counter to my usual technique of asking lots of questions, finding the people with good ideas, and supporting them.
You just gave me a wake-up that I may have left there, but I’m still using that “I know what I’m talking about” style instead of couching questions and off-the-cuff theories as what they actually are. Ugh.
A gut punch that I needed. Thanks for taking the time to respond.