If anyone has received manager training that specifically includes neurodivergent people I’d like to know about it.
Managing autistic, ADHD people and those with other neurodivergences is different from managing typical people and there must be something about it somewhere.
@Aniket on hindsight this is such an obvious thing; I'm sad to admit that
a) I've never thought about it before
b) needless to say I've never had such specific training

@esttorhe I’d love to see a large corporation take a shot at this.
You undoubtedly already have several autistic and adhd employees. You could ask those who are ok to reveal themselves about what works.
Also one high level director I know who’s autistic and adhd is Ani Moller might be worth reaching out to them.
Here’s a good primer in the meantime.

https://youtu.be/k9X5tkVyM_A

@Aniket @esttorhe at Workday we have employee belonging councils, one of them specifically about people with disabilities.
I got involved quite often on this type of discussions about how to support ND workforce better.
@Sh41 @esttorhe would love to have a conversation with someone there on the autism belonging council.
Or even read a blog about it written by one of them about what changes they’ve made.

@Aniket @Sh41 interested in this. Wondering if this is something we could leverage as part of #LeadDev.

Ongoing conversations about this inter-companies seems like a great step forward

@esttorhe @Aniket I'm happy to help and set up some follow up zoom conversation.

@Sh41 @Aniket Definitely interested! ♥️

Thanks for offering setting it up :)

Much appreciated

@Sh41 @esttorhe sounds great. I'm in the IST timezone, GMT+5:30
@Aniket @esttorhe maybe we can find some time tomorrow morning

@Sh41 @esttorhe works for me at least after 8:30am IST and latest 9pm IST. I'm in Mumbai.

https://www.timeanddate.com/worldclock/meeting.html

@Aniket @Sh41 hi folks. I just realised I never replied to coordinate.

I know it's been a month but I would like to not let this initiative die if possible

@esttorhe @Sh41 would love to
@Aniket @esttorhe it's been on my list, haven't forgot about it, just crazy busy end of the year
@Sh41 @esttorhe
late January is good too. We can figure out specific dates two weeks into January if that’s ok
@Sh41 @esttorhe hi folks, how are your schedules looking now?
@Aniket @esttorhe tight next week but a lot better the week after
@esttorhe @Aniket @Sh41
I’m working on something like this currently. Give me a week or so and I will see what I can share.
@Aniket I can tell you how I "trained" my manager. Spoiler alert, it was not necessary.
But it's a good topic, not everyone is on the same situation
@Sh41 hey Raul! I received a peer review sheet to fill out and I'm having a hard time thinking of anything and was wondering if there's any technique that helps :(
It feels like this could take all day.

@Aniket I've been thinking about this and can't think of any technique.
When I work on peer feedback I usually focus on the most important aspect of the person:
- What's their strongest point.
- What's their weakest point
- What's one thing they can do to improve

Not sure if that's what you're looking for, but I hope it helps.

@Aniket one framework is SMART feedback
Specific
Measurable
Actionable
Relevant
Time-bound

@Aniket and the STAR
Situation / Task / Action / Result

Feedback should be about specific cases and situation, not general "ideas". Examples help ground it, so the STAR framework helps with that.

@Aniket did that help, or did I miss the point?
@Sh41 it is helpful thanks! Was a mad time at work this week so I couldn’t get back
@Aniket SMART is more for objectives and career goals than for feedback, but can be used for both

@Aniket In the event of no training, do you have a good IT department? Talk to the manager.

If he doesn't know he's managing neurodiverse staff, listen anyway. He probably is.

@Aniket

Recently completed a Diploma in Leadership & Management & nothing in any detail around neurodivergence.

Which is strange because you're absolutely right.

@Aniket I have no manager training but I was the reporting manager for a year of a colleague with autism and ADHD. She told me she was very happy to have me as her supervisor and mentor. I can share some my own experiences, if you wish.
@Aniket try https://asiam.ie/ they offer a number of courses
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@Aniket As I Am carry out training for businesses and employers and is an organisation run by ND people: https://asiam.ie/training-awards/online-autism-training/ they have an online training module here.
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@Aniket definitely not as common and widely available as it should be. I have done freelance work for some neurodiversity training orgs, but I have defiantly noticed the majority of them focus on large corporations or the STEM sector in large urban settings. I would ❤️to see that idea expand to a broader demographic.
@Aniket 4 year bachelor in management, 3 year managerial leadership training at a massive it company. Not one single word, lesson, or mention of it. Kind of an indictment imo.

@Aniket I will ask my partner who trains new nurses/Más at her health center for what she'd recommend. (We are both ND.)

First step I suspect is HR who are actually good at their jobs and understand how accommodations work.

@Aniket I passed by this video so it might be helpful!

https://youtu.be/1o1CqZoUU_U

Fired For Being Autistic - Workplace Adjustments For Autistic Employees

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@Aniket as a neurodivergent manager (who has managed at least two other neurodivergent people) I feel like I've learned by doing and by thinking about what would help me (or, conversely, what really *didn't* help me). Also as someone in HR I've also encouraged other managers to do things I've learned work.

All that said, I feel like I know bits and pieces and do what I can to help other managers learn, too, but a resource to point others to would also be so helpful.

@allysonf I would love to read about everything, *everything* you’ve learned.
Just yesterday I was telling my spouse that the only way I’m going to get a good answer to this is from another ND manager.

@Aniket a few quick things off the top of my head:

- there's usually not actually one "right" way, so clarify the goal then let people figure out what works for them
- a lot of neurodivergent people need specifics and details, so plan for them to ask questions! And be as specific as you can, especially about what's most important (goals, objectives, parameters)
- especially (but not only) for ADHDers, let them control *when* they work on *what* so they can task-switch

@allysonf thanks this is immediately helpful since I often help my adhd spouse who’s a web developer get things done.
Do you also have advice for me as an autistic manager to manage NTs?

@Aniket

I've found that NTs are more likely to want the one "right" way to do things, so be ready to offer a suggestion if they do need it.

NTs also don't always connect dots like many autistic folks do (seeing parallels/patterns), so there's sometimes a need to slow down and walk through how things connect instead of just naming the pattern/connecting the dots and moving on. What's an obvious connection/pattern to an autistic brain might not be obvious at all to NTs.

@allysonf this is gold. It’s the main source of misunderstandings between other people on my team and me.
I help organise meetups/webinars on topics of #ActuallyAutistic interests with https://www.poweredbyautistics.com would you be interested in giving a talk there on this?
I’ve really wanted workplace advice of this kind.
@Aniket as I think we're on different sides of the world, I'm open to exploring the possibility but recognize timing might be a challenge!

@allysonf @Aniket

This is actually something of a lightbulb moment, although it shouldn't be, I knew these things before, I just didn't ... connect the dots.

This can lead to the autistic person getting terribly frustrated at constantly having to explain what they see as the simplest of things to the rest of the team on a daily basis. It can also lead to them either seeing the rest of their team as slow dim-witted fools or at least appearing to do so, which can be a real cause of friction.

@allysonf @Aniket I have to constantly do this in teaching. My squirrel brain creates weird analogies which work for some, while others need step by step, and others just see the pattern.

There's a lot out there for supporting kids that translates brilliantly to adults.

I've never understood why society forgets that ND children remain ND even if they're over 18.

@allysonf @Aniket last point is HUGE. no way ADHD'ers will stick around if there is no flexibility for when and what we work on. perhaps contributes to why so many ADHD'ers switch jobs so often
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@Aniket we had a partnership for interns with Broad Futures and they provided us with training for mentors and supervisors. I was away when they did it and I don’t know what they publicly share but maybe a good starting place for an org that focuses on neurodiversity in the workplace.

@Aniket my company has a sharepoint site for ADHD and surprisingly is a phenomenal resource for managers. whether they use it is a whole another discussion...

i just share that link everytime i speak with someone about my adhd, which is literally everytime and everyday 😂

@Aniket not training, but this is a good podcast on the topic: https://open.spotify.com/episode/6dJHR5LSNUrNxbyyUoNMWs - Episode Description: "The Anxious Achiever, Neurodiversity at Work - Host Morra Aarons-Mele speaks with Danny Lakes, a Procter & Gamble employee who is on the autism spectrum, as well as Todd Ballish, a neurotypical manager at P&G, about why having a program for neurodiverse workers is a strength for the company. Then, we’ll hear from Emily Kircher-Morris, host of The Neurodiversity Podcast."
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@Aniket I think this is about to be The Next Big Thing. My employer (large website, no not that one) is incredibly aware of diversity needs but ADHD/ASD was a new one for them when I reached out a few months ago. But they want to.

@static this is a really good one for autism in tech workplaces.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k9X5tkVyM_A

And an Indian org
https://www.youtube.com/c/MuchMuchMedia

Whatever they do, try to let them know that neurotypicals cannot talk about neurodivergent issues. I've seen so many initiatives go wrong because of this and ND employees burnout over bad leadership of ND diversity leadership by neurotypical people.

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@static ah, also I help with an org that works to support autistic people.

https://www.poweredbyautistics.com

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