Protyus A. Gendher

@ProtyusAGendher
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Protyus is a survivor advocate, social scientist, and systems thinker whose work bridges the realms of emotional truth and social application. With a rare ability to organize complex evidence and craft compelling ethnographic narratives, Protyus empowers others through clarity, compassion, and strategic rigor. Their advocacy is rooted in ancestral wisdom, spiritual grounding, and a fierce commitment to American justice—whether on the streets, in the community, or the quiet spaces of healing.
I could really use your help! 9.30.25

I have, once again, made some changes in hopes that it makes this place more readable, consumable, digestible. It’s so hard to be pretty and functional at the same time, but I continue to str…

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I loved that the space was mine, and I could make the rules, and I wasn't wrong all of the time. I could blast my music, and nobody complained about it being country. Clothing was optional, and nobody's opinions were allowed about that either.

http://invisiblymisdiagnosed.com/2025/09/30/87-a-place-for-me/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

87) A Place for Me

The narrative reflects the author’s journey of settling into a new home after a tumultuous and short-lived polygamous marriage. They find solace in independence while grappling with memories …

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Why do they always say autism like it's a bad thing? https://invisiblymisdiagnosed.com/2025/09/25/my-autism/
#autism #neurodivergent
My Autism

Discovering my autism was pivotal in my journey toward self-love, providing clarity and understanding. Embracing this aspect of my identity helped me appreciate who I am, ultimately leading to a mo…

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While the toolkit has worked wonders for me in terms of learning specific types of toxic behavior, how these behaviors work, and what alternatives exist, nobody else has to want this with me, and rocking the boat causes friction. There may be a point in your journey when you “find out who your friends are.”

What we should do when someone in your life refuses to work through the tools:
https://invisiblymisdiagnosed.com/2025/09/25/toxicity-toolkit-points-to-ponder-25-letting-go/
#psychology #selfhelp #toxicity

Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 25 – Letting Go

The post discusses the importance of letting go in relationships where toxicity and manipulation exist. It emphasizes understanding others’ responses, assessing situations, and establishing b…

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Everyone is usually good natured about chiding to begin with, but quickly within a group one person will be expected to take more of the embarrassing corrections in “good humor,” and someone else will start to give warning signs that they are not as humored by the additions... https://invisiblymisdiagnosed.com/2025/09/25/82-storytime/
#polyamory #marriage #youth #autoethnography
82) Storytime

The narrative explores the dynamics between two storytellers, their shared past, and the complexities of their relationships, particularly involving a close friend who didn’t pursue a romantic conn…

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Protyus, Protyus, Wherefore art thou Protyus?

The author reflects on their journey as a public content creator, necessitating a pen name for safety and identity. They chose “Protyus A. Gendher,” inspired by Proteus’ symbolism…

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There was that same sense that had hung in the air when LaDaughter had visited. That sense that he knew this was wrong, and it was never going to matter. That sense that she was in control, even if she had lied, manipulated, and undermined everything.

http://invisiblymisdiagnosed.com/2025/09/29/86-jealousy/?utm_source=mastodon&utm_medium=jetpack_social

86) Jealousy

The author recounts the painful experience of being asked to leave a polygamous living arrangement due to jealousy. Citing ongoing turbulence with their mother they move into a dilapidated cabin, f…

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Toxicity Toolkit – Points to Ponder 29 – More Happy Child

The author shares a transformative experience using “The Happy Child,” which significantly improved their relationship with their child. Through shared lessons, they process trauma, dis…

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Daily Prompt – Top Priority – 9.29.25

What is your #1 priority tomorrow? Dismantle Systems of Oppression Full Stop.

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Daily Prompt – Hard Work – 9.28.25

The author reflects on the misconception of tying self-worth to hard work, stemming from personal struggles and family rejection. They realize that fulfillment comes not from effort or exhaustion, …

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