The risk of sharing your writing – from rejection to publishing two books

Daily writing prompt Describe a risk you took that you do not regret. View all responses

The Risk of Sharing Your Writing

Maybe it was a risk to never send anything out for consideration.

There’s always that voice at the back of your mind:
What will people think?
Will they like it?
What if they hate it?
What if they reject it?

The truth is—those things can and will happen.

Anything you put into the public domain is open to both criticism and praise. That’s part of the deal. I’ve had plenty of pieces rejected over the years (it comes with the territory), and I’ve also seen that moment of surprise when people realise I write—something that doesn’t quite fit their expectations.

Why Taking Risks as a Writer Matters

Without risk, there is no reward.

Taking that first step—sending your work out, submitting a poem, publishing a story—is like opening a door. You don’t always know what’s behind it, but opportunity is there waiting.

It might not work out every time. But you learn. You experience it. And that counts for something.

So the real question is:
Isn’t it worth taking the risk just to see where it leads?

From Rejection to Publishing Books

I wrote the original version of this piece over a year ago.

Since then, things have changed.

I now have two books published, and each one came with its own level of risk.

My first book, A Mouthful of Space Dust, is a collection of slightly strange (and hopefully funny) poetry. If you enjoy poems about psychotic cats, vicars with road rage, and unusual characters, it might be exactly what you’re looking for.

A Mouthful of Space Dust by Gavin Turner

https://www.amazon.co.uk/mouthful-space-dust-Gavin-Turner/dp/B0C5PMHKQ1/ref=rvi_d_sccl_1/522-7718591-1157056?pd_rd_w=xxDAs&content-id=amzn1.sym.d56e60fb-87bc-405a-a95d-c5e322a9b3d9&pf_rd_p=d56e60fb-87bc-405a-a95d-c5e322a9b3d9&pf_rd_r=38EFRGE9TA4XDCCJAW2H&pd_rd_wg=9P1hk&pd_rd_r=ced3e387-2cda-4843-9b54-62d8dc21c5e5&pd_rd_i=B0C5PMHKQ1&psc=1

My second book is an even bigger leap—my first novella, Chopsticks.

It asks a strange question:
What if you were a brilliant but crooked musician… cursed to only ever play one tune?

Chopsticks by Gavin Turner

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Chopsticks-Gavin-Turner-ebook/dp/B0G5QVGK7C/ref=sr_1_5?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.pb9qgeIQ2tRwF4bDzFqCL-Zm_m8vKA1cWX1b6YM2YcVhz2Nx1FOzyNfcSAnHz-kTnTqzcjchNjpGxnZgMK_GDAgmS1UGIly09N_TzAwQnjiQsE1J1oD_dJF0iT60qcJsf17iOfGKCCp6oaHyIHQbFfth4aPcO1H95DlWUgC-TDJH5nzgqeYWIY0qNx1kfqRk.N-vW7YCKZ4zPpBqnCF7mI6sAa1mmvk2qePhzLJiouZY&dib_tag=se&qid=1767797509&refinements=p_27%3AGavin+Turner&s=digital-text&sr=1-5

Both books are available on Amazon as paperback and ebook.

The Balance Between Risk and Reward

This is what it really comes down to—the balance between risk and reward.

Does it still feel risky sharing my work?
Absolutely.

But what’s the alternative?

Keeping everything to yourself?

Stories are meant to be shared.

A Message for Writers

Maybe there’s a story you’ve been holding back.

Maybe you’ve been waiting for the “right time” or the confidence to send it out.

That moment might never come.

But the opportunity is still there.

Take the risk. Open the door. See where it leads.

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Until You’re Willing to Look Stupid, You Will Never Be Free - Zsolt Zsemba

Freedom does not come from confidence. It comes from being willing to look stupid and acting anyway. Why embarrassment controls most lives.

Zsolt Zsemba

Until You’re Willing to Look Stupid, You Will Never Be Free

Willing to look stupid?

I have experience in this. Some experiences were embarrassing, some were amazing! So looking stupid is not motivational. It is mechanical. It is simply how humans work.

Most of the things you want sit behind a moment you are trying to avoid. The awkward conversation. The public mistake. The visible attempt that might fail. You are not scared of doing the thing. You are scared of how it will look while you are doing it.

So you wait.

You rehearse.

You overthink.

You polish the idea until it no longer moves.

Looking stupid feels dangerous because it threatens your image. The version of you that wants to be seen as competent, composed, and in control. The problem is that the image becomes a cage.

Freedom requires motion. Motion requires trial. Trial requires being seen before you are good.

No One Starts Smoothly.

They start obviously. Think about all the silly things you avoid. Dancing when you want to. Speaking up when you have something to say. Trying something new without being good at it yet. Posting the idea. Asking the question. Making the call.

You tell yourself you are being cautious. In reality, you are protecting yourself from embarrassment.

Embarrassment is not fatal. It is temporary. But the avoidance becomes permanent.

People admire confidence, but confidence is a side effect, not a starting point. Confidence comes from surviving the moments you thought would break you. The first time you looked stupid and lived anyway.

Here is the part most people miss. Everyone you admire has already embarrassed themselves more times than you ever have. You just did not see it. You only see the polished version that comes later.

Behind every confident person is a long trail of awkward moments they stopped caring about.

The need to look put together keeps you from putting anything together.

This shows up everywhere. Careers. Relationships. Creativity. Life choices. People stay quiet in meetings not because they have nothing to say, but because they do not want to sound foolish. People stay in relationships they have outgrown because starting over feels embarrassing. People avoid opportunities because they do not want to be a beginner again.

Being a beginner is uncomfortable. That discomfort is not a sign to stop. It is proof you are doing something real.

Looking Stupid is The Entry Fee For Growth.

The irony is that people spend so much energy trying to avoid looking silly that they end up looking small. Playing safe. Staying predictable. Living half lives with full excuses.

No one remembers the awkward moment you are replaying in your head. They remember how you made them feel. And most of the time, they are too busy worrying about their own image to notice yours.

The moment you accept that looking stupid is part of the deal, something shifts. You stop waiting for permission. You stop needing approval. You start moving.

Freedom is not the absence of fear. It is the decision that fear will not be the boss.

So go ahead. Try the thing. Say the thing. Do the thing badly. Do it awkwardly. Do it without looking impressive.

Every silly attempt is a brick removed from the prison you built around yourself.

And one day, without noticing when it happened, you will look back and realize you stopped caring who was watching.

That is freedom.

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