WAAAAAAAA. Why can't the people who fall in love with me, be the kind to buy me a Nikon z6III to express their love?! Waa. Life is hard. Also, lower barrier options for my content are currently uploading on @[email protected] and @[email protected] :) #cyberpunk #trans #postop #goth #bimbo
wottabout #transitioned #postop #transwomen? unfortunately we still also have this hideous #prostate monstrosity, alas 🤢🤮
RE: social.chinwag.org/users/abc_b…

Une revue sur les soins post-opératoires (et gynécologiques en général) au cabinet après une vaginplastie[1].
Sont traités : les sténoses, les douleurs pelviennes, les pertes (vaginite, vaginose, etc.), les granulations, les symptômes urinaires, les dépistages (IST & cancer) + quels problèmes nécessitent une attention chirurgicale.
Les suggestions étant très concrètes, c'est utiles pour les non spécialistes (généralistes, gyneco, sage-femmes, ...), qui sont souvent peu formé·es et tendent à renvoyer vers les chirs (peu joignables), ainsi que pour soi-même.

Note quand même : y'a pas de consensus sur différents sujets liés aux post-op (genre le rythme des dilatations, les lavements, les questions de flore, etc.) donc ça limite forcément les reco qui peuvent être faites, et j'ai pas l'impression que le papier le mette assez en avant. Je suis aussi assez fortement en désaccord avec leurs reco sur le dépistage du cancer de la prostate (test régulier du PSA chez les personnes à faible risque : chez les hommes cis on sait qu'il n'y a pas de bénéfice à ce dépistage organisé, pour ça qu'il n'est pas conseillé en France, alors chez les personnes transfem dont le risque est bien plus faible et pour qui on manque d'études du bénéfice/risque d'un dépistage, c'est un peu n'importe quoi).

[1] : Clinical guidance and recommendations for in-office management of the neovagina: A review. Schmidt-Beuchat E, 2025. https://doi.org/10.4103/IJRU.IJRU_23_25

#postop #vaginoplasty #srs

Kinks guitarist Dave Davies hits back at Moby for calling 1970 single Lola ‘gross and transphobic’

The band’s co-founder responded to the US musician’s comments, defending the song and saying they are ‘not transphobic’

The Guardian
@diraquel i'm a #PostOp #Transwoman [2006], & have no idea at all what any of that means 🤯🤷
oh, my #thunderbird reminder just went off, reminding me that tomorrow morn after my shower i need to do a quarterly job i dislike, which is a consequence of my second trip to thailand in 2006. it involves tweezers, a torch, & my magnifying mirror... oh & my bed.

thinking about it made me realise, for the bajillionth time, how lonely it's been, having nobody to discuss all the amazing things that i organised to happen to me, & various other things i did myself, over that three year journey. statistically so few people ever experience it or directly know anyone who did, & so most vanillas ofc have no idea at all about any of it, & have shown zero interest in asking questions. the one friend who travelled her same parallel journey across approximately the same time, & with whom for a while during the Befores, & the Afters, i could discuss & compare notes, exited the stage several years ago, oh well.

#transition #PostOp
Zur Abwechslung mal kein Cat Content sondern was aus dem Archiv, 2 Monate post-op vorm bougieren für #bellymarch und #marchand #nsfw #postop

Auf dem Rücken schlafen ist einfach nicht meine Position… 🤬🥵😖

#postOP

I might get some ultra-short bibs to show this look off this summer. Or it could be utilised as a space for a massive Guinness tattoo. #PostOp #ShavedThigh #ThatWasASurprise

had a little chat thru the back screen door with him, asked if he'd like a glass of cold water. we reviewed the work done so far, what else is left, what he'll tackle next today, what he'll have to leave til next time coz soon he'll be running into the appointment time of his next job. on that, he mentioned

need to go around to a lady's place to sort out a lock for her


he seems a thoroughly pleasant & courteous bloke, has always been so with me in each of our prior discourses [ie, the previous jobs he's done for me], yet, such is my terrible skullgoo, that i fixed then fixated on his not saying

need to go around to another lady's place to sort out a lock for her


similar thing happens with my mowing bloke, who i've used for very many years & who has always been great with me [& indeed, we often indulge in much silly banter]. typically when he mentions other clients, jobs, to me, he similarly mentions "a lady" or "a woman", but not "another lady" or "another woman".

it all accumulates in me, & just amply reinforces my sense of failure, thus futility.

#Depression #SelfLoathing #SocialPhobia #FailedTransition #PostOp #Transwoman #Transphobia #Unworthy #Nihilism #ExistentialFutility #SuicideIdeation #spoons #PrimalScream