"Only after [my father's] passing did something unexpected happen. Since becoming much more observant and taking on the responsibility of saying #Kaddish every day, I’ve begun to sense a relationship with him that feels more real, more intimate, and more meaningful than anything we shared while he was alive. Feeling that connection grow through an act meant to elevate him led me to ask the question: Why be elevated at all? If he lived a life of doing good, shouldn’t he already be where he needs to be? Where, quite frankly, he deserves to be? The short answer, it turns out, is not exactly.

What I’ve learned is that in #Judaism, the soul does not simply “arrive” at a station marked Olam Ha’Bah and stop there.

#Tzaddikim ein lahem menuchah lo ba’olam hazeh v’lo ba’olam haba”—“The righteous have no rest, not in this world nor in the next.” (#Berachos 64a)

The #Ramban (Shaar HaGemul) and the #Zohar (II:150b) echo this idea..."

https://jewishjournal.com/judaism/386014/kaddish-and-the-relationship-i-never-expected/

Kaddish and the Relationship I Never Expected

Some relationships find their fullness in time. Ours is now taking shape beyond it.

Jewish Journal

Women's League for Conservative Judaism has a regular online prayer service for saying Kaddish and Mishaberach.

View on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/WLCJ1

#Mazeldon #Judaism #Jewish #JewishWomen #Tefilah #Kaddish #Mishaberach

Ofra Haza - Kaddish

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#Meyer_Habib, ancien député des #Français établis en #Turquie, #Italie, #Grèce ou encore #Chypre, nous parle de l’armée #Israélienne, de ses frères #Kaddish (Ka-ké-dine), du peuple Juif, de la #Torah, du #Cachrout, de shabbat et de la kippa sur la tête.

Today is my #memoir's 4th birthday. It wasn't until I wrote the preface that I realized writing the #book was my way of sitting #shiva & saying #kaddish for my father who died of early-onset #Alzheimer's. Dr. Bruce Miller, #neurologist @ #UCSF, sat shiva w/me. I will be eternally grateful.

Acknowledging that I'll never recover from how my father died has strangely liberated me to remember him (w/ and w/o the disease- I had forgotten the latter) & help others.

https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/12605/finding-right-words

#EndAlz

Finding the Right Words

A Story of Literature, Grief, and the Brain

While I'm at it I'd like to mention that I belong to a small #minyan that meets Sun-Thu at 6PM Pacific on Zoom. During the summer we do both minḥa and ma'ariv; when the days are shorter we only do ma'ariv. Usually one of us gives a short d'var #torah. And, for what it's worth, I lead either minḥa or ma'ariv every Tuesday.

As you may have guessed from my previous post, we use the Conservative siddur and liturgy. The minyan is a project of the Jewish Collaborative of Orange County (CA), which my wife helped found and where she used to work.

The minyan is great for those saying #kaddish, for East Coasters for whom a late ma'ariv is more convenient, and for anybody who'd like to participate more in davening but doesn't really get the opportunity. We have people join us from all over the country, though on any given evening we'll have 10-15 participants.

If you're interested, PM me and I'll be happy to share the details. 2/2

If you need an online place to say Kaddish for your loved ones, join the Nechamah Minyan.

Email to register: https://aleph.org/civicrm/mailing/url/?u=16448&qid=6297817

#Mazeldon #Jewniverse #Jewdiverse #Kaddish #Jewish #Judaism #Minyan

Wanting to mourn/needing to resist:

"Political grief . . . reflects the feeling that your worldview or political beliefs — what we think is right vs. wrong, or morally valid — is under attack." An individual "may be mourning potential losses of [their] own rights and economic stability, as well as worried about the impact it might have on reproductive rights and public health."

https://www.salon.com/2025/01/27/surviving-political-grief-youre-not-alone-and-there-is-a-path-forward/

#Kaddish
#USPol

Surviving "political grief": You're not alone, and there is a path forward

Collective mourning at this four-year horror show is real, and highly understandable. But we're not helpless

Salon

Wanting to mourn/needing to resist:

"Political grief . . . reflects the feeling that your worldview or political beliefs — what we think is right vs. wrong, or morally valid — is under attack." An individual "may be mourning potential losses of [their] own rights and economic stability, as well as worried about the impact it might have on reproductive rights and public health."

https://www.salon.com/2025/01/27/surviving-political-grief-youre-not-alone-and-there-is-a-path-forward/

#Kaddish
#USPol

Surviving "political grief": You're not alone, and there is a path forward

Collective mourning at this four-year horror show is real, and highly understandable. But we're not helpless

Salon