Friday's fire take:

Monogamy is not the natural state of humans and defs not the natural state of hellions.

"But humans are naturally monogamous!"

U are not.

- U cheat like, a LOT.

- U divorce at crazy rates. Like up to 50% of first marriages and up to 70% of other ones.

- Even when u don't cheat, u often skirt the border of like... emotional cheating. Or u know, climb the fence and sneak into emotional cheating land lol.

Okie, some of u might be monogamous but I don't think its as common as u think. Ur obsession with it is bc even if u were never Abrahamic, u have been force fed their views. I think probs, u are not entirely mono, even if u do tje mono thing for short times.

"What about hellions?"

Pfft we are mostly like u. Including the dumb indoctrination.

"What about u?"

I'm non-mono but demi. So not mono but super picky.

#HotTake #FridayFire #Monogamy #Polygamy #PolyAmory

New #FridayFire🔥: “When Christmas is Hard”

https://fridayfirebyrobertcallahan.substack.com/p/when-christmas-is-hard

♻️ this #FridayFire in time for #Christmas carols.

#racism #race #god #jesus #church #evangelical
#spirituality #politics

https://open.substack.com/pub/fridayfirebyrobertcallahan/p/o-holy-night-and-the-end-of-oppression?utm_source=direct&r=1h2nfv&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

#FridayFire 🔥 is either a couple of days late, or a few days early, depending on your POV. I couldn’t rush this one because it’s too important for survivors of spiritual abuse. Just in time for Thanksgiving family gatherings.

https://fridayfirebyrobertcallahan.substack.com/p/tell-the-truth-shame-the-devil?utm_source=direct&r=1h2nfv&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&fbclid=IwAR2M-1lOdG3mmEghAR_iOerAz2zpAGC9s8hFpDA4RrlUkLG2ejEeU5NXf0A