Mx. Nillin Lore

@nillinlore
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A #trans #queer, #actuallyautistic, #polyamorous #sex blogger and author out of Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada. Placed 1st in the Top 100 #SexBlog of 2021.

Hard at work writing my second book, "Carry On: Unpacking Your Internalized Transphobic and Queerphobic Baggage", releasing in 2026 from Thornapple Press.

I'm a #furry.

Header by my husband @dilutedghost.

PronounsThey/Them
Age38
FursonasSnowfall (deer), Honeybee (dog), and Earl Grey (opposum).

Be sure to pre-order "How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers" today! I'll be doing a few online launch events at the end of next month, including this Instagram Live chat with Shelf Life Books out of Calgary, Alberta at 2:00 PM on August 28th.

PRE-ORDERS: https://thornapplepress.ca/books/how-do-i-sexy/

#queer #trans #nonbinary #LGBT #LGBTQ #LGBTQIA

How Do I Sexy? - Thornapple Press

What even is ā€œsexy,ā€ and how the hell do you do it? A tough question for trans and non-binary queers struggling to find their sexual selves in a landscape rife with misogynistic, transphobic and homophobic ideals and expectations. In How Do I Sexy?, Mx. Nillin Lore provides affirming and helpful direction based on over a […]

Thornapple Press

My upcoming #book, "How Do I Sexy? A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers", is officially available for pre-order! It releases on August 23, 2024, from Thornapple Press 🄰

Buy it now on Amazon.ca here: https://www.amazon.ca/How-Do-Sexy-Nonbinary-Queers/dp/199086953X/

From Amazon.com: https://www.amazon.com/How-Do-Sexy-Nonbinary-Queers/dp/199086953X/

From Barnes & Noble: https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/book/1144292045

#trans #queer #nonbinary #books #author #lgbt #lgbtqia #lgbtq #queerbooks #writing #sexy

Amazon.ca

NEW POST! "You know, maybe I’m just starting to have my mid-life crisis a little earlier than anticipated. I’ve been thinking so much about my purpose, about my legacy, the impact (if any) that I’ve had on my community and those around me, and anxiety about the thought of just not existing… it’s been a lot."

Read the full post here: https://mxnillin.com/dating-as-a-millennial-trans-queer/

NOTE: site is #NSFW.

#Trans #queer #nonbinary #sexblog #mentalhealth

Existential Dread, Dating, and Finding New Connections as a Millennial Trans Queer - MxNillin.com

Turning 37 has come with a lot more big feelings than I’d thought it would. I mean, what even is 37? I hadn’t even considered that this was an age I could be until it was here. It’s not turning 40, entering that part of existence considered your ā€œmid-lifeā€. It’s not even turning 35, when...

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NEW POST! There’s just so much that I didn’t get to be while growing up. I’m still grieving all that. I lament what my first 30 years could have been.

Read the full post here: https://mxnillin.com/i-never-got-to-be-a-femboy/

#trans #queer #femboy #lgbt #mentalhealth

I'm Sad That I Never Got to Be a Femboy - MxNillin.com

Ten years ago (as of next month), at the age of 27, I started coming out. It’s hard trying to move forward and grow when so much of your life has been spent denying yourself happiness. While it’s always good to finally break free from toxic patterns, to prioritize your needs, wants, desires, and wellness...

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Why, yes I am! Thank you for noticing! #actuallyautistic #trans #queer #flirt

Wrote a post for #sinfulsunday! Been struggling a lot with feeling like my chronic pain and fatigue are in constant conflict with my needs and desires. It's a lot.

Read it here [link is very NSFW]: https://mxnillin.com/my-conflicting-needs/

#sexblog #sex #nsfw #cock #queer

My Conflicting Needs - MxNillin.com

I feel like my needs and wants have been at odds with each other lately, that my chronic pain and fatigue keeps me static, and it’s a lot. I desperately want to be more social, to develop a close social circle, but I’m also generally so fucking exhausted, overwhelmed, and in need of tons of...

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I just deleted, like, 8,000 words of my book then wrote 15,000 brand new words, plus an entire glossary, as part of substantive edits for "How Do I Sexy? A Guide for #trans Queers" over the course of just 10 days and I feel like a rock star! #writing #LGBT #lgbtqia #trans #queer #queerbooks
I think that #pokemon might be a special interest of mine, maybe šŸ˜… #actuallyautistic

Been having really big death anxiety and existential dread feels. So much of the blatant transphobic laws, policies, and all of the hatred online and in my own city just make me feel deeply unsafe, anxious, and depressed.

And that's not even considering global warming, poverty, pandemics, civil war, and so much else to worry about too. The world just feels so bleak and overwhelming.

I don't want to be so afraid. I want to live a fulfilling life. I want purpose.

I need more #pokemongo friends! Please feel free to add me if you'd like more folks to send and receive gifts from! My code is 1891 3332 3444

#pokemon