Tip if you have autistic friends*:
You know that thing where you're talking about wanting an orange, and they suddenly start rambling about status symbols in ancient Rome?
Info dumping is a display of trust and affection. Many autistic people have been repeatedly punished for being their true selves, often to the point of serious trauma. If they're letting you see into their very minds and sharing what they care most about, it's an act of vulnerability and trust.
Info dumping can also be because their brains are just full of stuff they've been obsessing over, and getting it out is their way of giving up what they love to make space for your conversation.
So, if you REALLY want to make their day, return the favor. Focus on their conversation instead of yours. The magic words are: "Really? Tell me more."
Just make sure you mean it. Authenticity matters. Then, sit back and enjoy a random TED lecture.
#ActuallyAutistic #neurdivergent #autism
* Disclaimer: If you've met one autistic person, you've met one autistic person. Won't apply to all, but probably to most.
I am so fed up with making an account for every single website to do literally anything
Also the irony of this is hilarious
Mozilla's new CEO, Apple breaks PWA, Wine on Android: Linux & Open Source News
https://tilvids.com/videos/watch/1c88fff9-fc96-4848-940d-6f558c22ff80
Been thinking a LOT about why I struggle so much to post my personal work/art anymore and the impact it's had on me. Wrote a blog post: https://write.as/addie/the-death-of-posting-personal-works
or you can discuss it in the forums: https://demodisc.zone/t/the-death-of-posting-personal-works/68