Mastodawn

@antiaall3s Sind sie im gleichen WG? Andere Wohnung, gleiche Block? Gibt es en Gefäss um über Bedürfnisse zu reden? Sind sie offen und reflektiert und willing um die Arbeit zu machen? Tut mir leid, slechte Schlaf hat so ein krasse Einfluss auf den Resilienz und Emotionale Kapazität und Energie Level um den Tage zu überleben. Ich hoffe, es wird besser für dich.

Jasper 5d ago

Nela Dunato 5d ago

"People find the stigma around #autism to be distasteful so they reject that autistic traits could pertain to them. Autism horrifies them because the unknown is scary and being marginalized is hard.
Those of you who identify with #HSP and deny you have social or communication differences are likely so highly masking (hiding your autistic traits) that you think you can’t be autistic because you are social and have a lot of friends. So was I and so did I."
https://medium.com/@theautlaw/the-highly-sensitive-person-is-autistic-autistic-autistic-bb9267d91b71
#ActuallyAutistic

The Highly Sensitive Person is Autistic Autistic Autistic

The sooner we admit that HSP is masked autism the better.

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Jasper 5d ago

Jeden Tag eine Volksinitiative 6d ago

Volksinitiative für mehr Sackgeld

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Jasper 6d ago

@puntarella Yes, exactly. Resentment builds slowly over time. I hope it's gonna change, I try to calmly explain the process and its importance, and I try to get the others to this level of communication. Some are open to it! Others "don't understand why we have to talk about this" and some flat out say they don't want to take more time to do this work at all.

"If you have these needs, maybe you shouldn't live in a WG."

My take: "If you don't want to do the work, maybe you shouldn't live in a WG."

We'll see.

Jasper 6d ago

So it turns out I live in a GoOd vIBeS OnLy house.

"We don't need to talk about this, we have already talked about this over a year ago".

"Okay..? But now the constellation of the group has changed, don't you think we should then talk about it again?"

"No".

Ouch, even 'cool progressive' people don't want to do the work it actually takes to live together. Sure, it's gonna feel uncomfortable from time to time, but talking about our needs and making a group decision is so very necessary.

It's hurtful because I get painted as this difficult person who takes up space and forces others to accommodate only my needs. No, that's not my point. I can also accept decisions that are not my preferred outcome. I keep saying that I need to know the needs and preferences of everyone and that as a group we need some foundation to feel good, take responsibility and yes hold each other and ourselves accountable. Is that too much to ask? Apparently.

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Jasper Mar 23

@adfichter Wingo, kein VPN, kein alternative DNS.

"Der Zugriff auf diese Seite ist aufgrund einer richterlichen Verfügung gesperrt."

Jasper Mar 20

RE: https://graeber.social/@DGI/116262279868111027

Cptlsm and money are so boring

Jasper Mar 20