RE: https://mastodon.social/@yvonnezlam/115510783113183878
This is helpful framing. One of the things that this article points to is the degree to which we've eliminated backpressure by individualizing communication buffers. In 1983, if you called me, and I was already on the phone, you got a busy signal. If I was buying groceries, no one picked up at all. If the communication was important, _you the sender_ owned the buffer, and owned the responsibility of trying again.
In 2025, if you text me, at the same time that my kid is texting me and the app driver picking up my groceries, _I_ own the buffer in the messaging app and notifications on my phone. The senders have no idea how busy or not I may be; even if every sender is well-meaning, and sending a message that most receivers would welcome, we now take for granted that triage is the receiver's problem, and an effectively infinite one at that.
It's challenging to think about what plausible social changes could rebalance this (I think the technology is not the _primary_ barrier here).