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Mental Health Awareness Month Playlist on Libro.fm

May is Mental Health Awareness Month! Each year, the National Alliance of Mental Illness works to fight stigma, provide support, educate the public and advocate for policies that support people with mental illness and their families. Here are some audiobook picks to support—and educate about—mental health.

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anyone have tools or techniques to test and hone your interoception?
#AskingAutistics #ActuallyAutistic
If adults in my life had listened to this one 30 minute track (track 6, beginning part 2) of Beyond Behaviors, I might not have spent 25 years barely able to function socially due to struggling with #CPTSD.
Just learned it's #AutismAcceptanceMonth
Anything special going on this month?
"Perhaps there was no more detrimental consequence of our childhood abandonment than being forced to habitually hide our authentic selves."
— Pete Walker
#cptsd #actuallyautistic
Somewhere in my teens I started realizing that when people look at me they don't see anything. But it took me until somewhere in my twenties to give up hope of connecting. I remained confused for years about how others get any emotional needs met. All those blank eyes.
I finally realize now, they got something early I didn't. They got validation or acceptance, and they took it in, and put up a wall around, and over the wall, they wield tools. Just tools. Here I am, being vulnerable to a shovel.
Both are probably true, for sure. In different fractions for different individuals. But the conjecture: ·Most allistics assume neurological difference and inherent social disability, while ·most autistics simply percieve undeniable danger in common social contexts.

Does #autistic disengagement from social structure necessarily originate in some kind of brain deficit, or instead, due to neurological differences, does allistic social structure simply *not* offer safety or comfort?

If social structure is uncomfortable or threatening, *any* neurotype or neurotypical would disengage. Just consider foreign cultures and/or political or religious differences. What if *you* were surrounded by aliens at birth? You, too, might fall behind in social development.

They say children "crave structure". Crave is a pretty silly choice of word. We humans are all *pacified* by structure.

I wonder if understanding how that happens from a neurological perspective might help understand neurodiversity.

I think #ActuallyAutistic people may be *less* pacified by social structure, and instead turn to other uncommon structures for peace and predictability in life.

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@Jessica How's neurodifferent.me? A lot of autistic adults over there? I kind of want a space for just autistic adults, not the broader category. I need to migrate somewhere, sometime soon.