One thing that does shock me about neurotypicals is their tantrums are so different.
Instead of identifying the source, they blame other people’s character.
They talk shit about their friends, and expect you to agree.
“I did not notice” did the neurotypical reply.
Apparently they lie when they try to make peace? We met today and pretended nothing had happened.
Does my ASD tolerate teamwork?
Not if I want to pitch a tent or puting away Christmas lights.
Just realised what I had yesterday was an ASD meltdown from prople not tidying up ‘right’ at a function party.
I have since apologised, but I am aware some neurotypical friendships don’t last after me becoming pedantic.
@pathfinder @Hyperiontrails My mum is the same. She will get asthma triggered by pollen an by chemical perfumes that she can identify really quickly.
When she starts sniffing around, I know there is something to get rid off. Comes in handy!
Plans cancelled.
So I got to do something else that was pending. After the initial frustration, I am proud and happy now.
Understanding my resistence to change comes from being #actuallyautistic helps me be kinder to myself, and to move on quicker to the next thing.