Christian Gajewski

@c_gajewski
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Military veteran, surgical technician, neurodiversity coach. Diagnosed autistic at 48, twice-exceptional. Writes on masking and minds wired differently.
Websitehttps://www.christiangajewski.com
Mediumhttps://medium.com/@christian.gajewski
Substackhttps://christiangajewski.substack.com

The neuroaffirmative turn de-pathologised alexithymia. It didn't de-centralise emotion as the reference category. That distinction is everything.
This week's Substack is about what the clinical vocabulary couldn't name, and the word I coined to fill that gap.

https://open.substack.com/pub/christiangajewski/p/thirty-seven-degrees-a-fan-pointed?r=1y90fn&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web

#Autism #Neurodiversity #Philosophy #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent

Thirty-seven degrees, a fan pointed at me, and the word I needed didn’t exist yet

On naming something the clinical vocabulary had no container for.

Christian Gajewski

Uta Frith wants to remove late-diagnosed autistic adults from the spectrum. By her own contraindicators, I shouldn’t have my diagnosis. By my 32 years of wrong diagnoses, I have my answer.

On epistemic authority, paradigm shifts, and who gets to define the experience from the inside.
https://medium.com/@christian.gajewski/who-owns-the-authority-to-define-autism-3bb89836a2cb

#Autism #Neurodiversity #Psychology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent

Who Owns the Authority to Define Autism?

Uta Frith’s interview, 32 years of misdiagnosis, and the paradigm shift she cannot accept

Medium

A 1980s anime handed me an honor code at ten. A clinic handed me the autism diagnosis at 48. Two names for the same nervous system, and the older one was kinder.
What is a diagnosis actually measuring?

https://medium.com/@christian.gajewski/bushido-named-my-autism-38-years-before-the-clinic-did-698c6999e1a2

#ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent #AuDHD

Bushido Named My Autism 38 Years Before the Clinic Did

A 1980s anime handed an alexithymic boy an honor code at ten. The clinic supplied the second name, autism and ADHD, at forty-eight.

Medium

Uta Frith wants to remove late-diagnosed autistic adults from the spectrum. By her own contraindicators, I shouldn’t have my diagnosis. By my 32 years of wrong diagnoses, I have my answer.

On epistemic authority, paradigm shifts, and who gets to define the experience from the inside.
https://medium.com/@christian.gajewski/who-owns-the-authority-to-define-autism-3bb89836a2cb

#Autism #Neurodiversity #Psychology #ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent

Who Owns the Authority to Define Autism?

Uta Frith’s interview, 32 years of misdiagnosis, and the paradigm shift she cannot accept

Medium

A 1980s anime handed me an honor code at ten. A clinic handed me the autism diagnosis at 48. Two names for the same nervous system, and the older one was kinder.
What is a diagnosis actually measuring?

https://medium.com/@christian.gajewski/bushido-named-my-autism-38-years-before-the-clinic-did-698c6999e1a2

#ActuallyAutistic #Neurodivergent #AuDHD

Bushido Named My Autism 38 Years Before the Clinic Did

A 1980s anime handed an alexithymic boy an honor code at ten. The clinic supplied the second name, autism and ADHD, at forty-eight.

Medium
@OrionKidder @ablock Completely fair, and I'd take the honest "yuck" over a sale that sat wrong with you. One reader stepping off Amazon won't dent their numbers, true, though it's exactly the signal that gets authors like me to stop treating Amazon as the only door. I'm setting up wider print distribution through Ingram, which puts it in indie shops and on Bookshop.org instead. I'll ping you the moment it's live.
@OrionKidder @ablock Honestly, not right now: it's Amazon-only for both formats at the moment, since the ebook's in Kindle Unlimited for this stretch. I know that's the wrong answer for a lot of people here, and wider availability is on my list. If Amazon's a dealbreaker for you, say so and I'll flag you the moment that changes.

@ablock @OrionKidder Thank you, @ablock. A recommendation from someone who actually read the book carries more weight than any line I could write about it myself.

@OrionKidder the book runs in the register you're asking for: analytical, logic-driven, masking treated as mechanism rather than narrated as feeling. Whether you recognize yourself in it is the only test that counts, and a few pages will answer that. Ask me anything if it helps you decide.

Just watched Sorrentino's La Grazia on MUBI. Wrote about it on Substack: the film as grief work in four registers, death, love, role, and the idea of the self. For anyone whose inner life needs a translator before it can be felt.

https://open.substack.com/pub/christiangajewski/p/sorrentinos-la-grazia-or-the-grief?r=1y90fn&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

#PaoloSorrentino #ToniServillo #LaGrazia #ItalianCinema #Mourning

Sorrentino’s La Grazia, or the Grief Without a Funeral

Four kinds of grief work in a single film: death, love, role, and the idea of the self.

Christian Gajewski

Just watched Sorrentino's La Grazia on MUBI. Wrote about it on Substack: the film as grief work in four registers, death, love, role, and the idea of the self. For anyone whose inner life needs a translator before it can be felt.

https://open.substack.com/pub/christiangajewski/p/sorrentinos-la-grazia-or-the-grief?r=1y90fn&utm_campaign=post-expanded-share&utm_medium=web

#PaoloSorrentino #ToniServillo #LaGrazia #ItalianCinema #Mourning

Sorrentino’s La Grazia, or the Grief Without a Funeral

Four kinds of grief work in a single film: death, love, role, and the idea of the self.

Christian Gajewski