@ausm @VeroniqueB99 I don’t believe you are asking this question sincerely, but just in case you really are let me explain:

Nobody chooses bad men. Men know how to pretend to be good until they have you trapped.

I know you guys don’t like to hear this because misogyny has society convinced that women are out there trying to baby trap men, but it’s the other way around.

Because bad man know once they have a child with us they have control over our lives.

My mom‘s generation might have been forced to choose bad men because until 1974 women could be denied a bank account, or credit, and until the 80s women and kids could be denied an apartment, so women from my mother’s generation had to choose a man for survival so I could see why they may have chosen a bad man hoping they could fix him or something.

But that’s not what’s happening now. They know how to fake it until we are trapped.

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@SomeGadgetGuy @violenteastcoastcity @VeroniqueB99 “Keeping a man” is only challenging if you have self-esteem and self-respect.

The only thing a woman has to do to keep a man is be a doormat and a bang maid.

The worst men are almost impossible to get rid of. Ask anyone who has been stalked or harassed by an ex.

@stepan I would disagree, to say someone "is the problem" pretty much implies that that person is responsible.

Also, both terms do have different meanings. Children of absent fathers can have mothers that are in a e.g. lesbian relationship. These kids are then not children of single mothers anymore.
Same thing works the other way around, where the mother is single but the father is not really absent.