Accountable language!
@VeroniqueB99 How is the parent who stayed the problem?
- Maybe she didn't want him to stay.
- Maybe she replaced him with someone who didn't want to stay.
- Maybe she doesn't know who it is.
There can be a million reasons. Sometimes its him to blame, somtimes her, somtimes nobody. 1000 cases mean 1000 different situations. But simplify it by blaming the gender (or race, religion, etc...) I don't like is something I'd usually expect from people who are politically far right.

@ausm @VeroniqueB99

you're missing the point here

the post is making light of a bias in the common language

that's a good point

so just acknowledge the point

but you seem to have an urgent need to switch up the focus here

why?

calm down, don't get so emotional, and acknowledge the point of the original post without this unnecessary desire to switch the focus up...

almost defensively

almost as if the post makes you feel personally attacked

that's rather revealing Matthias