Tank: Behold my impenetrable armor! None can hurt me!
Enemy: *ignores tank and stabs wizard and cleric wandering around in glorified bathrobes*
Tank: I didn’t mean you weren’t supposed to try!
I’ve always liked the idea of the opposite. I have a character sheet somewhere for a concept of a warlock who thinks she’s a paladin, but now I think it’d be funny to do a warlock who thinks they are a sorcerer with a patron who is also unaware of them. No one knows how anything is working but it is so we’re going with it.
'Hey, guys! Check it out. You guys always made fun of my finger guns but I had this wicked-crazy dream last night and now they started actually firing for some reason.'
Re: lesson two
Long time ago, one of my teachers showed the class the data from a survey of managers. It asked them to prioritize a list of things that could lead to a firing. Number one was punctuality/attendance. Number four was theft. This suggested to him that you could be stealing from the company, but if you showed up every day on time you’d be less likely to be fired than if you were always MIA but not a thief. Years in the workplace has only served to confirm this for me.
Diminishing is, I admit, a rough word choice. I actually tried thinking of something else but couldn’t quite find the right word. It’s… Perhaps denormalizing? Demoralizing? Diminutizing? Denaturing? I’m still trying but can’t quite land it.
Perhaps I can find a way to talk you around the perimeter and you can get an idea what I mean. Complaining serves a purpose in making a problem known so that it can be addressed. Complaining about others complaining doesn’t directly diminish their ability to complain in that they haven’t been physically or coercively stopped from complaining, but it does delegitimate their complaints, which is not inherently bad (some complaints are dumb) but when the delegitimation is carried out based on some broad class like ethnicity/nationality/etc. rather than the legitimacy of the particular complaint, that reads like prejudice, of which I’m generally not in favor.