@shel (D20 FTW!)
Remember, #FOSS and open source is built by #people. Sometimes companies too, but in Mastodon's case, by people doing it in their spare time. So... "Be excellent to each other".
And while "patches welcome" might seem rude when you ask for feature X, fix bug Y, or whatever, that's how it works.
Complaining that Eugen should do something is like complaining to a random stranger at a bus stop they should paint the bench - a specific color.