@t I haven't but I like Paul Rudd. What made it fantastic for you?

@t I've been poly, for 3 years and am semi-closeted too. My friends know but not my family. But all my partners are poly.

@Jerrik that is incredible! Congratulations!

@Jerrik Sounds like an awesome time, minus the phone!

@poly_pockets there definitely are circumstances in which I'd become effectively monogamous, but it's pretty unlikely I think at this point. Living poly is very important to me, yes. It's inherent to me in the sense that personal freedom and agency is to everyone, I just apply it to my personal relationships and we call that poly. That has become a core part of me and how I live.

@poly_pockets Bonus answer: In my three years so far, my thoughts and feelings around this tend to deepen and broaden. There's been more change for me around how I accept the other styles of poly that others choose and a lot of work I've done to judge less.

@poly_pockets Hi Pockets. For me, I very much consider it part of my belief system that I choose for myself. Part of all of what feels right to me and guides me on my journey. It's very strongly tied into my own sense of self determinism. And if it feels right for you I have a hard time seeing a 'want' as any less significant.